9 WAYS TO KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT TO END

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Relationship is like a sweet soup; when tasted at first, you would love every bit of it but as time goes by, it loses that freshness except a certain method of preservation is used to keep it fresh from spoiling. But if it eventually gets spoilt, the only option would be to throw it away and maybe cook up a new soup. Likewise relationships, if you don’t do certain things to keep your relationship fresh, it would eventually get spoilt and at that stage you want to end it for a better one.

Sometimes though, you might be in a relationship and you wouldn’t know that your partner is getting bored of that relationship and wants to quit, signs of a break up are revealed but you are too short sighted to understand that your partner wants to opt out until he/she eventually decides that it’s over and files for a divorce or asks for a break up and you are left heart broken. No relationship can break down at once, it must give signs that it’s about to end and you have to pay attention to those signs.

The following tips below would show you if your relationship is about hitting the rock.

1. THERE IS LESS COMMUNICATION

When the communication in a relationship reduces, trust me, it’s a huge sign that your relationship is about collapsing. When two people are in love, they want to hear each other very often; a minute without that person is like an hour and an hour is like 24 hours. Nothing should make your partner stop calling you except he/she is tired. So if you are in a relationship and you’re the only one doing the calling, then you need to pause and think why that’s the case. Don’t deceive yourself by making excuses for your partner for not constantly communicating with you. You aren’t doing yourself any good.

2. THE MOOD AFTER S*X

S*x is a huge determinant in a whole lot of things in a relationship; s*x can show you if that guy is still in love with you or if that lady is tired of the whole thing and can’t wait to quit; ask me how? During s*x, different vibes are exhibited but you shouldn’t use that to judge because passion levels are high at the time. But that moment after s*x is a huge determinant. When he still crazily wants to be with you even after getting that sexual satisfaction or when she still clings to you even after the whole experience then that’s a sign that affection still exists. But when he’s had s*x and remembers that there is somewhere he needs to be at or when she feels bored immediately after s*x then just know that s*x is the only thing holding you guys and even that would fade after a while.

3. HOW OFTEN DO YOU GUYS SEE?

The only exception here is when one of you is out of town. But in a case where both parties are in town and still make minimal efforts to see each other then there is a problem. Really, out of sight is out of mind; you can’t be close and not want to see each other. When there is no constant visiting, it kills the vibe till all the vibes eventually burns out. And if only one person is making efforts to see the other and the other person doesn’t really bother then something is wrong.

4. HOW OFTEN ARE YOU GUYS HAPPY?

Happiness is a true sign that a relationship is healthy; when both parties in a relationship are happy then break up is a language that they wouldn’t understand. If she makes him happy and he makes her happy then it’s a win-win. Those happy moments are priceless; but when there is less reason (or even no reason to be happy) then there’s problem. So when you notice that your partner is no longer happy with you, then you need to solve that case before it escalates to a point of no repair.

5. IS SOMEONE ALWAYS COMPLAINING?

When a partner in a relationship is always complaining (especially about little things) then know that he/she is disgruntled and is looking for a way out. Maybe those complaints just want to be used as the bait to achieve that break up. Complains are signs of dissatisfaction; constant complaining are signs of constant dissatisfaction. This is simple, when someone is constantly dissatisfied with you then it’s a sign that the person is tired of you.

6. WHEN HE/SHE IS ABSENT MINDED

When your partner is with you and is always absent-minded then it means he or she cares less about what you are saying. When a relationship is vibrant, much attention would be paid to each other; that’s because there is love and care. But when the aforementioned two doesn’t exist then he/she would be absent-minded from everything you say and everything that’s going on in your life wouldn’t bother him/her.

7. ALWAYS FAST TO PICK UP QUARRELS

Girls would tell you that the fastest way for a guy to break up with his girl is to pick up quarrels easily even when there is no need for a quarrel. That is really true; when you are in love, you would overlook all the shortcomings of your partner but when you want to step out of that relationship then you wouldn’t even wait for an opportunity to quarrel, you would create one.

8. HE/SHE STOPS ASKING FOR YOUR OPINION

Naturally, guys love taking only their own opinion but when they love a lady they cut off that opinionated habit and try to seek the advice of their lady and ladies also seek the opinions of their man just to show that they care about him and want him in her life. But when all these is no longer in place; when one or both of you don’t care to know the other one’s opinion about an intended act, break-up isn’t far away, I assure you.

9. YOU NO LONGER SPEND QUALITY TIME

There is a huge difference between spending time with someone and spending quality time. People that are in love spend quality time with each other; they value every moment spent; it’s like a treasure to them. But when the love is no longer there, quality time would be a thing of the past. So just know this, when he or she comes only when he/she wants something, then it’s a huge break-up sign or when he/she isn’t interested in spending hours with you, you need to re-check that relationship. People in love spend time with each other; they try as much as possible to create that time but when there is no quality time spent between you guys, break up is inevitable.

Break ups can be heart breaking for someone that’s in love but one fact people don’t know about heart breaks is that it doesn’t just come all of a sudden. It gives us signs frequently that something is no longer right but sometimes we are too busy or too in love to notice. Know these signs and fix that relationship before it’s too late; don’t take anything for granted.

Shawn

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4 Comments on "9 WAYS TO KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT TO END"

  1. If she makes him happy and he makes her happy then it’s a win-win.
    Why do i pick up unhappy women? unhappy with their children they gave birth to before they were dumped?

  2. What i have experienced is that sometimes when i am with my partner i dnt get an erection easily to an extent that she complains but with a different lady i am ok, but our relationship is new, what might be the problem

    • From your explanation Lesh, your problem with your partner is more psychological. Your inability to easily have a hard on could happen for so many reasons: it could be a lack of foreplay, or that you hold some hidden resentment towards your partner. It could also be a problem of nervousness, anxiety, agitation or even stress. Go for a better foreplay with your partner, feel relaxed and enjoy her company, and if you have any resentment towards her, sort it out with her.
      Also, try to enjoy the beauty of being with her and her alone. Cheating only compounds the relationship woes.

  3. Wow I like it and I know it is very true

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