9 WARNING SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP NEEDS HELP

No relationship collapses suddenly; it gives you warning signs before it finally collapses. Here are 9 warning signs that your relationship needs help

1. YOU ARGUE ABOUT THE SAME THINGS ALWAYS

Your relationship needs help if you and your partner argue about the same things over and over again without resolving the argument. This normally happens as a result of the both of you always wanting to defend your position instead of looking for an effective solution.

2. REDUCED COMMUNICATION

Your relationship needs help if the communication level in your relationship has declined. Communication is important in every relationship and if you feel a complete lack of inclination to talk to each other, then your relationship needs help.

3. YOU HAVEN’T MOVED ON FROM YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP

Going into a new relationship without moving on completely from a previous relationship can cause problems in your new relationship. When you haven’t healed from your last heart-break, you may find yourself overreacting to fairly innocent things your partner says or does because it triggers memories from a past relationship.

4. YOU COMPARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO OTHERS

Your relationship needs help if you compare your relationship to others. No two relationships are the same and when you compare your relationship to others, you won’t appreciate the positives in your relationship.

5. YOU’RE UNABLE TO REACH A COMPROMISE ON KEY ISSUES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Your relationship needs help if you and your partner are unable to reach a compromise on key issues in your relationship. Problems can arise in a relationship when neither party is prepared to give ground beyond a certain point on an issue.

6. YOUR FRIENDS COME BEFORE YOUR PARTNER

Your relationship needs help if your friends come before your partner. Your partner should be your priority not your friends.

7. YOU FANTASIZE ABOUT CHEATING

Your relationship needs help if your find yourself fantasizing about being with someone else. When you find yourself repeatedly daydreaming about being with someone else, you risk destroying your relationship.

8. TIME SPENT WITH YOUR PARTNER ISN’T FUN ANYMORE

Your relationship needs help if time spent with your partner isn’t fun anymore. You used to look forward to spending quality time with your partner but these days it now feels a bit boring. If you notice this in your relationship, it’s time to reconnect with your partner because your relationship needs serious help.

9. YOU TREAT YOUR PARTNER WITH CONTEMPT

If you treat each other with contempt, your relationship needs help. Treating your partner with contempt is a sign that you have clearly stopped valuing and appreciating your partner and this could lead to a breakup.

Phil

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