Understanding is a vital quality that’s needed in relationships, but it’s one that’s lacking. When understanding is lacking in your relationship, you would experience frequent fights, quarreling and chaos.
A beautiful relationship is one with understanding, but when understanding is lacking, the relationship can never be beautiful.
How then can one build understanding in a relationship?
- BUILD THE LOVE
Love creates the breeding ground for understanding to grow. When you and your partner love each other, you can go on to build an understanding relationship with each other, but when the love isn’t there, understanding would be absent too.
When you love each other, the next eight steps would be easy to achieve.
- TALK TO EACH OTHER
Talking is the first part of communication; rather than hold it in, say how you feel, talk through that situation with each other and you would be surprised at how easy things would become.
- LISTEN TO EACH OTHER
Listening is the most effective part of communication. Sometimes partners are willing to talk to each other but unwilling to listen. Listening has so many advantages that would help your relationship; you cannot have an understanding relationship if you and your partner don’t listen to each other.
- USE PROPER COMMUNICATION TERMS
When you are talking to your partner, use a low tone, don’t be quick to anger, don’t be abusive and don’t use derogatory terms.
- LEARN FROM EACH OTHER
When you see your each other as a treasure of knowledge that you can both dig from, you would value, respect and understand each other more.
Be willing to learn from each other, and this would help you both to rub off on each other, and understanding would be the outcome.
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