No one is born to cheat, it’s the simple truth, don’t give the tale of it’s in the blood. Most times when we start a relationship or even get married, we plan it with thoughts of never cheating but suddenly most end up cheating.
When you check the reason people divorce or the reason most people dating breakup, you find out that most times it is because a partner couldn’t remain faithful, they cheated. Why the sudden change and how do you know you are about to join the cheating community.
Here are 9 signs
1. NEED FOR REVENGE
Your partner cheated on you and you just can’t forgive them, it hurts I know but the truth is the more you hold the anger, the more you feel the urge to revenge. When the thought of revenge becomes too strong, the best way for most to revenge would be to cheat back.
So if you just can’t forgive your partner for cheating, just know you might soon be heading that route too. Most people would cheat because a partner cheated.
2. ALL YOUR PALS CHEAT
I know most people would scream and say they are not easily influenced by their friends. Show me your friend and I would tell who you are, it’s as easy as that. The fact most of your friends are cheating is a big sign you could join the cheating party too.
You hang out with them often, you always see them with different partners, you need to understand when you are in such company, you begin to feel in your subconscious that it’s right to have another partner.
3. DWINDLING SEX LIFE
When you started dating your partner, the sex was too great, you couldn’t have enough. Then probably for no reason or for so much reasons, the sex dwindles, watch yourself. That is a huge sign you might cheat soon. If you don’t fix the sex with your partner, the probability of you cheating is so high.
So when you notice sex is on the decline, you should begin to ask yourself questions and try to fix it.
4. FEELING NEGLECTED
When you feel your partner doesn’t pay attention to you anymore, those thoughts could lead to you cheating soon. If you feel your partner is neglecting you, try talking with your partner about it instead of keeping it inside. The more you keep it inside, the more the thought of cheating gradually builds and before you know it, you in the act.
5. DESIRE TO FEEL SPECIAL
Most times in a relationship especially one that the couple have been together for a long time, the compliments just stop rolling, we all love to feel special. This could lead to you seeking for compliments outside and that point, you should know you are heading towards ‘cheat city’.
6. THE LOVE IS NO LONGER THERE
Due to different reasons, you could start losing the love you have for your partner. When your heart starts telling you that you no longer love your partner, you should know you are about to cheat soon. So try walking your way back into love quickly or you would find yourself cheating sooner rather than later.
7. YOU HAVE DATED JUST THAT PERSON
Sometimes because our partner is the only person you have been with, it starts creating problems. You begin to wonder how it would be like if you could just date someone else even for a day. When you start wondering how the world is out there, then start planning to label yourself a cheat.
8. YOU STOP CONFIDING IN YOUR PARTNER
When you started dating your partner, you could tell them everything (yes everything). Then suddenly you can’t confide in them anymore, you will probably end up finding someone to talk to. It’s funny because most times that someone you start confiding in is mostly the opposite sex. It starts as a harmless talk and before you know it, sometime else develops.
So the moment you realise you feel comfortable confiding with others than your partner, you need to know that’s a sign you are about to cheat.
9. YOU START FEELING INSECURE
When you start feeling insecure with yourself, having a side fling becomes inevitable. The thoughts of side flings to boast your ego and tell you still have what it then takes creeps in. when you get to the point when you feel less good about yourself, you should know you might be cheating soon.
So if you know you really don’t desire cheating, you should watch out for these signs.