8 WAYS YOU CAN GET A MAN’S ATTENTION WITHOUT HAVING TO FLIRT

6. NEVER EVER BE DESPERATE

Never be desperate about having a man; your desperation would scare him off. Men notice when a woman is desperate, and don’t also make the mistake of settling for someone you don’t like because you are desperate — you might regret it in the end.

7. YOUR APPEARANCE MATTERS

This is one area where ladies make a mistake. Your mode of attraction doesn’t really have to be by seduction. There is a popular saying that ‘the way you dress is the way you would be addressed’; your dressing can make a man be attracted to you just for sexual purposes or because he really sees something in you that attracts him which he hasn’t figured out yet. A guy once told me ‘every man wants a lady that’s decent but a whore in bed for him’, and that to an extent is true. Dress beautiful and you would leave men wondering.

8. BE FREE AND HAVE A GOOD TIME

Live your life, be free with people, be free with yourself, know when to set boundaries too and I think you won’t believe the way people (men especially) would want to be with you.

Stop blaming a spell, stop blaming luck, stop blaming men, stop blaming your looks, stop the blame game — love yourself, put these tips into reality, and you would have a variety of men to choose from, because they would come in their droves.

ViV