8 UGLY TRUTHS ABOUT DATING A WOMANIZER

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Being in a relationship with a womanizer is every woman’s nightmare; every woman wants her man to be committed to her, and share his emotions, care and body with her alone.

Dating a womanizer comes with its own risks and danger, and if a woman isn’t careful, it just might get the better of her. There are certain ugly truths, or rather certain dangers of dating a man who flirts with almost everything in skirts.

1. YOU STAND A RISK OF CONTRACTING STD

This is one of the ugliest truths about dating a womanizer, and every woman should be wary of this. I’ve read of quite a number of women who contracted STDs from their husbands who couldn’t keep their pants down. A bitter truth of a man who womanizes is that he stands a great risk of contracting an STD, especially if he’s the type that’s nonchalant about using protections. Dating such a man also increases your own likelihood of being infected.

2. YOU COULD LOSE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM

Surprisingly many women blame themselves for their man’s immaturity and inability to stay faithful. A man who womanizes would always womanize no matter what you do, and it’s no fault of yours. Being with a man who can’t find satisfaction in you alone could make you feel you’re the problem even when you aren’t, and this could kill your confidence.

3. JEALOUSY IN YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP

This is another sad truth about being with such a man. You don’t feel assured in your relationship, so you get jealous of every woman you see your partner with. This kind of jealousy could make women do crazy things.

4. COMPETE TO KEEP YOUR MAN

When you are dating a womanizer, you’re forced to compete to keep your man, and that’s one battle you would lose easily, because if he can’t keep his eyes off women there is hardly anything you can do about it. So being in a relationship with him is already a lose-lose situation for you.

5. YOU AREN’T DULY APPRECIATED

This is also another danger of dating a womanizer. Even if he gives you the best treats in the world and actually cares about you, you would never be duly appreciated because he also does same to a thousand women out there. Even if you are special to him, you still won’t feel duly appreciated because you can’t keep your man and have his every attention. In many cases even, the womanizer kind of man would never treat you right.

6. YOU NEVER KNOW WHERE YOU STAND

This is also another big issue women that date womanizers face. Due to his numerous female partners, you don’t know where you stand with him, because he could just be having fun with you and telling you same sweet words he would tell the other women.

7. SAD MOMENTS

This is also another surety when your man is a womanizer. You would definitely have many sad moments, probably even more than the happy moments. Going through his phone would make you sad, thinking about the relationship with no future would make you sad, seeing him with other women would make you sad, knowing you can’t keep the man you love would make you sad, and the list goes on.

8. NO TRUST

What’s the use of a relationship without trust? Dating a man you can’t trust is one decision that would make you live a life of uncertainty, and a relationship with a womanizer is a relationship without trust. You can’t trust your man, you can’t trust his words and you certainly can’t trust his actions.

 

Dating a womanizer would bring you more harm than good and that’s a bitter truth.

ViVĀ 

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