8 THINGS YOUR RELATIONSHIP SHOULDN’T DO TO YOU

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When you are in a relationship with someone who loves you truly, there’s this feeling that feels like magic which makes you want to protect your partner even at your expense. That’s love. Love is beautiful when you are in love with someone who loves you in return.

There are lots of things a relationship can make you do like protecting your partner at your expense (as I mentioned earlier), ensure you never hurt your partner no matter the circumstances and lots of other stuffs. There are still lots of things a relationship shouldn’t make you do too.

Below are 8 things a relationship shouldn’t make you do

1. A relationship shouldn’t replace your existing friends. I feel sad when I see people let their relationship with their friends collapse due to their romantic relationship. This is so wrong. Your romantic relationship shouldn’t replace your existing friends but it should instead fit in seamlessly with your existing friends.

2. Your relationship shouldn’t make you lose who you really are. You shouldn’t lose yourself and who you really are just because you are in a relationship.

3. Your relationship shouldn’t drain you but it should instead renew you and motivate you. Your relationship shouldn’t be like a battle that leaves you drained and knocks the wind out of you.

4. Your relationship shouldn’t make you dependent on your partner. Your relationship should be the springboard for you to achieve even bigger things for yourself and not one that leaves you totally dependent on your partner. Your relationship shouldn’t make you see your partner as an ATM.

5. Your relationship shouldn’t make you keep secrets and plenty of skeletons in your closet. When you and your partner keep things from each other that isn’t a relationship.

6. Your relationship shouldn’t make you feel insecure. When you are with the right person, it takes away every feeling of insecurity from you because your partner won’t see your flaws as flaws.

7. Your relationship shouldn’t make you feel paranoid but should instead make you feel safe and comfortable. When your relationship makes you get jealous easily, the end of your relationship is so near.

8. Your relationship shouldn’t be your only source of happiness. Your relationship should be one of the many things that bring joy to your life and not the only thing.

Phil

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