Ever heard that saying “hell has no fury like an angry woman”? If you have experienced a woman’s anger then you would know that an angry woman is like a raging lion and no man would like to see his lady in this kind of mood.
Mistakes are bound to happen in relationships but correcting them is what would make the relationship forge ahead. Calming your lady down after you have erred might not be an easy task but it’s not as hard as you think.
I would recommend 8 ways you can help calm that lady down.
1. ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKE
If you did something wrong which made your lady angry, the first thing to do to make your lady less angry is accepting your mistake. Make her feel she’s right and you are totally wrong and her anger would reduce by more than 50 percent (that is if you didn’t sleep with her best friend, lol). Women love it when a man can admit he’s wrong; this is the first step to getting that lady’s heart in order.
2. GET HER A GIFT
Get her a gift even if she might be too angry to accept it; by this you have passed a message that you still care about her and want the relationship to go on. Women love to be treated like queens; treat her like a queen and she would be less angry.
3. DO STUFFS FOR HERÂ
When she’s angry, you have to let her know that you are sorry and want her as a big part of your life. If you help her do the things which she normally does then she would appreciate it and could probably chuckle in her mind even If she won’t say. If you can help with the dishes or some simple chores or assistance then she’d be glad but she probably wouldn’t show it.
4. REMAIN CALM
A calm nature is the best way to calm your lady when she’s angry. Women have a way of wanting you to react to her when she’s angry so that she can flare up the more but your ability to maintain your calmness would surprise and also calm her down in ways you can’t imagine.
5. DON’T TRY TO WIN THE ARGUMENT
Where most men get this wrong is when they try to win an argument with their lady especially when she’s angry. Even If you won’t take sides with her, try as much as possible not to make your relationship argument a contest. Once a contest comes in, there would only be one loser. If she sees that you are acting mature about the whole thing then anger might be far from her.
6. EVEN IF YOU DON’T AGREE, SHOW HER RESPECT
Show her that respect that you value her stance even though you don’t agree with her; maintain a calm demeanour and she would have little reason to get angry. Every lady loves a man who would respect her; respect her when she’s angry and she wouldn’t lose value of you.
7. ACT LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED
After an argument or anything that has made her angry, the onus would fall on you to push the relationship out of the mud. One way you can do this is to act like nothing happened; she might not fall for this easily but she will eventually; by acting like nothing happened I don’t mean you should leave the problem lingering; that would never work. Act like nothing happened on your side, act like you were never angry even though you know that you were and things might get calm.
8. LEARN TO WALK AWAY
Walking away sometimes can be the best way to calm an angry lady down. If you talk back at her when she’s in this mood, you would most definitely flare her up – it’s like adding fire to petrol. The best way to calm your lady is when you walk out at the heat of the moment rather than causing more heat. By this you have struck a blow psychologically and she might begin to feel guilty that she chased you away. What silence can achieve most times, words can’t.
When a woman is happy, the relationship would be happy; learn how to calm your lady when she’s angry and the relationship would be a happy one.
ShawnÂ