Sometimes we are so excited being with someone that we fail to recognize that someone just isn’t a good fit for us. Most people don’t realize they’re in love with the wrong person and they only find out when it’s too late. How are you supposed to know for certain that someone isn’t actually right for you?
Here are 8 signs you are in love with the wrong person:
1. YOU SEEM TO BE UNHAPPY WHEN TOGETHER
How do you feel when you’re together with your partner? If you feel heaviness within you and you seem to be unhappy most times then you are in love with the wrong person. When you are with the right person, you will feel happy and satisfied more often.
2. YOU DON’T FEEL SECURE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
How secure you feel in your relationship is key to knowing if you are in the right relationship. If you constantly feel unsure about your partner’s commitment to you, then you are in love with the wrong person. When you are in love with the right person, you would feel secure in your relationship and won’t have to worry about your partner’s commitment.
3. YOU FIND YOURSELF THINKING ABOUT BREAKING UP TOO OFTEN
When you are in love with the right person, you want the relationship to last for eternity and the thought of losing your partner would make you feel sad. You picture how amazing life will be together and work towards achieving your goals. But if you find yourself thinking about breaking up too often, then you are in love with the wrong person.
4. CONSTANT FIGHTS AND ARGUMENTS
Arguments are a normal part of every relationship. In a healthy relationship, partners are able to solve issues in a productive manner. You are in love with the wrong person if you find yourself brushing your problems under the rug because it’s impossible to resolve issues with your partner. You find yourselves constantly fighting and having arguments even over very irrelevant things.
5. YOUR PARTNER MAKES NO EFFORT
A huge sign that you are in love with the wrong person is that you are the only one putting in an effort to make the relationship work. If you are the one always compromising while your partner is never willing to budge, then you are in love with the wrong person. In a healthy relationship, both partners compromise to ensure the needs of the other person is met.
6. A FUTURE WITH YOUR PARTNER DOESN’T APPEAL TO YOU
If a future together with your partner doesn’t appeal to you, then you are in love with the wrong person. If you don’t see your partner as part of your future, then you are in the wrong relationship.
7. YOUR PARTNER DOESN’T LISTEN TO YOU
You are in love with the wrong person if your partner never listens to you. He/she is always willing to talk about their day but never seem interested in yours. Your partner always makes the decision in the relationship and never seem to care what you think.
8. YOU ARE NEVER GOOD ENOUGH
If your partner makes you feel like you aren’t good enough, then you are in love with the wrong person. You feel like you can’t do anything right in your partner’s eyes no matter how hard you try. You feel like you always have to prove yourself and your partner never has anything nice to say about you.
Not everyone is suited for you. If you find most of these signs in your relationship, it’s best you walk away.