Most guys ask this question a lot; “how do I know she isn’t right for me?” Sometimes a guy can get so attracted to a lady that he wouldn’t know if she’s the one for him.
Attraction isn’t really a sign that a lady is right for you; it is just like using a faint candle light to look for a rusted pin in a thick forest. There are really signs that a lady isn’t the right one for a guy but sometimes guys get carried away by so many unnecessary things that they become blinded to the fact that the lady isn’t really for them.
1. SHE ONLY THINKS OF HERSELF
No matter how beautiful a lady is, if she only thinks about herself then she isn’t the one for you. A selfish and self-centered lady can never be right for you because love is not selfish and self-centered. When all she thinks of is not what would benefit you or the relationship but only her then forget it; you should rather be with yourself than be with her.
2. SHE FINDS IT DIFFICULT TO TELL YOU SHE LOVES YOU
Ladies can be funny at times; they claim to love someone but find it hard to say or express the feeling they are talking about. If she grudgingly tells you that she loves you or rarely says it, then it’s pretty obvious you are with the wrong woman. A woman who loves you would never find it difficult to tell you but when she doesn’t, it’s a problem. Maybe she’s only in it for what she would gain.
3. SHE ALWAYS NAGS
I wonder why guys can be so short-sighted. A lady keeps nagging and complaining no matter what the guy does and for whatsoever reason he still decides to keep her and even pushes the relationship further. One thing every guy ought to know is that a nagging lady would never be contented. Give her the whole world and she would still be on your neck; so why worry yourself? If she isn’t contented with your little even when you give her everything, she still wouldn’t be contented.
4. SHE REVEALS THINGS TO YOU
Everybody have skeletons in their closet. When a lady is right for you, she wouldn’t mind telling you her secrets and other intimate things. She feels free with you, your world becomes her world and she enjoys every bit of it; so there is no reason to keep things away. But a lady that isn’t right for wouldn’t see any reason to divulge more things about her; all she tells you is what she wants to tell you which are just the basics. Don’t be deceived, any lady that cannot open up to you isn’t right for you.
5. HOW DOES SHE TREAT YOU IN PUBLIC?
Whether you like it or not, how she treats you when with her friends, in public or even your friend matters a lot. It shows her regard for you and if she regards you highly, it would show, and if she doesn’t, it would be obvious as well. When a lady is right for you, she wouldn’t mind telling the whole world about you but when she isn’t, she doesn’t see the need to.
6. HOW MUCH DOES SHE RESPECT YOU?
Respect is essential for every relationship and a lady that has respect for her man is priceless; it shows she values that man and wants to spend a big part of her life with him. However, guys have misconstrued the true meaning of respect; they don’t know what it really means, they think a lady only respects them when she becomes a modern slave to them by doing everything they ask of her. If a lady respects you, respect her in return; it’s a huge sign of how much she wants you.
7. HOW MUCH IS SHE READY TO SACRIFICE FOR YOU?
All my life, this is one thing that I’m pretty sure of. When a lady loves a man, she is ready to sacrifice the whole world for him; if possible, she can go to Antarctica and back for him. She is ready to do everything possible for that man; the more she can sacrifice shows the extent to which she wants him; likewise, the lesser she sacrifices shows the extent she doesn’t really care. Her sacrifices for you is a huge sign on whether she is right for you or not.
8. HOW OFTEN DOES SHE WANT TO BE WITH YOU?
This is a widely known sign. Any lady that is right for you would ALWAYS want to make time out to be with you. So when she’s making all manner of excuses not to see you, then you ought to be careful. Women can’t be far away from anything they value. If they value you, they would try to do anything possible just to be with but when they don’t really value you that much then the excuse keeps pouring. Don’t deceive yourself fellas, when she starts making all manner of excuses, then think twice.
When a lady is right for you, the signs would be right there for you to see; don’t be blinded. Being with a lady that isn’t right for you is like trying to drink tea with a fork; it’s tough. But when you are with the right one, everything would turn out so easy.