8 FACTS ABOUT FIRST DATES

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First dates are pretty much special and is always way too anticipated because you don’t know what to expect from your date. I previously did a piece on 9 don’ts on your first date, highlighting all the things people do on first dates which they shouldn’t.

There are also some certain facts about first dates which we all ought to know and I’d bring you some of them.

1. YOU JUST MIGHT BE NERVOUS

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Well nervousness is always expected on a first date more especially when it’s a blind date where you don’t know who and what to expect. First dates make you think on what should you wear, how to act and everything you’re going to do and all those thoughts might just make for a little nervousness on your part.

2. YOUR DATE MUST ASSESS YOU

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One thing you should note is that your date would surely assess everything about you, and everything you do would be noticed. Even the tiniest details about you would be noted. Same way you are assessing your first date is the same way you would also be assessed; this really you ought to be at the back of your head.

3. IT’S A MAJOR DECIDER

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I always say this about first dates; they are a major decider on whether you go on to start a relationship or not. If the date was romantic enough and made you guys want to see each other again then a relationship might be in horizon. It can also decide whether you guys turn out to be just friends or even flings at that. First dates decide a lot.

4. WE ALL WANT TO MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION

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We all want to make a good impression on our first date, that’s why special care is given to our looks and everything that goes with it. No one wants to give a bad reputation on the very first date and so preparations to impress your date are put in place. Same way you want to make a good impression is the same way your date would want to impress as well; it’s a two-way thing.

5. YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOUR DATE IS THINKING

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While on a date one thing you might think of what is going through your date’s mind. You will wonder what he/she is thinking about you and your date would also be doing same also. First date shows curiosity at its best; you need so many answers to so many questions.

6. YOU KEEP WONDERING WHETHER YOU IMPRESSED YOUR DATE

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This happens mostly if you like your date. If it’s someone you’re attracted to, then you just keep wondering whether you made an impression or not. And if your date is attracted to you, the same thing would be running through his/her mind. The aftermath of a first date (especially one that you enjoyed) is one that would keep you wondering on how much you impressed; and you might even get a certain feeling that you didn’t impress your date; that’s how deceptive first dates can be.

7. IT DOESN’T REVEAL MUCH

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Whether we like it or not, first dates reveal just little about our date; you might even end up having a wrong impression. During first dates, everyone just tries to be on their best behavior, and so you end up knowing only what your date wants you to know. First dates won’t reveal much if your date is the quick to anger type, the jealous type or any bad side at all.

8. FIRST DATES ARE ROMANTIC

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First date might be the most romantic ever; it’s always special and intimate and everyone is trying to impress which makes it all the more romantic. Every guy is most romantic on his first date and he tries to obey all the simple rules that every guy is supposed to do. He tries to be too nice to a fault and that makes it a bit more romantic.

These are simple facts about first dates which you probably knew or didn’t. To me, first dates are just to be enjoyed.

Shawn

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