Before you emotionally invest in a relationship, it’s important you really find out if he’s for real or just taking you for ride.
Below are 7 ways to know if he’s taking you for a ride
1. YOU AREN’T HIS PRIORITY
If he really cares about you, he would make you his priority and genuinely make an effort to always put you first. If he doesn’t make any effort to put you first, he’s just taking you for a ride.
2. HE DOESN’T TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE WITH YOU
If he is happy to respond when asked ‘where is this relationship heading’, then you have a man who is serious about you. You know he is taking you for a ride if he never imagines a future together with you.
3. HE CAN’T BE TRUSTED
When a man truly cares about a woman, he avoids acts that would make his woman not trust him. You know he’s taking you for a ride if he always lies and can’t be trusted.
4. THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT SEX
The relationship will be all about sex if he is taking you for a ride. He never wants to hang out with you and there is always an excuse when you bring it up. If you find your man doing this, he is taking you for granted. If he truly cares about you, you would see him investing in the relationship.
5. YOU DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT HIM
If he truly cares about you, you would know every thing about him. You would know about everyone in his life from friends to family to co-workers. If he is taking you for a ride, he won’t want you to know anyone in his life and he won’t also want too many people knowing about your relationship with him.
6. YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HIS PAST
If he isn’t honest about his past, then he’s taking you for a ride. A man who truly cares about you would be honest enough to tell you about his past and he won’t have any ex-girlfriend drama.
7. HE’S NEVER THERE WHEN YOU NEED HIM
You know he’s taking you for a ride if he is never there when you need a shoulder to lean on. A man who truly cares will be there for his woman when she needs a shoulder to lean on.
So is he taking you for a ride?