Kissing isn’t just an ordinary thing but people take it for granted. Not everyone is a good kisser but kissing is an art everyone should know. People think kissing is just something that involves two lips coming together but that’s wrong; kissing goes beyond that; it carries along the mind with it; it’s an important tool for foreplay.
If you love someone, then there is nothing wrong in learning how to kiss him/her. Being in love is just the first step, knowing how to spice up your love life is the next big step
Being a good kisser can do a lot of good to your relationship and for that I chose to write on 7 tips that would make you a good kisser; and trust me your spouse won’t let go of those lips.
1. KISS WITH YOUR EYES CLOSED
Kissing with your eyes open is the most insensitive form of kissing; it just shows that you are not really into it. Imagine if you are kissing someone with your eyes wide open and the person you are kissing is also doing same; it’s more like you guys are just staring at each other and nothing else. Try this test when next you kiss someone; open your eyes and kiss the person for 120 seconds; note how you feel. Then close your eyes and kiss for just 80 seconds and then feel the difference. Kissing is something that goes beyond the body, it carries along the mind and it involves a lot of passion. Now you just learnt the first rule of kissing.
2. DON’T CONCENTRATE ON THE LIPS ALONE
People feel that when kissing, the only thing they kiss are the lips. Welcome to the 21st century people; that would get boring after a while. When kissing, moving your lips around so many parts of the body would stir a lot of passion; mostly the neck. Kiss him or her GENTLY around the neck and the ears; go back and forth, don’t concentrate on just one part. The neck is one very sensitive part, learn to explore it.
3. KISS GENTLY
Kissing should never be rough; the lips are very soft and sensitive, so taking it hard might hurt. Easy does it when it comes to kissing. Kissing a lip intensely can make it sore or swell after. Being gentle even brings more passion along.
4. THE LOWER LIP IS USUALLY REALLY SENSITIVE
The lower part of the lips is one very sensitive part; a lot of magic happens around there; be sure to go catch the fun involved there. But concentrating on just that would kill off the fun.
5. LEARN TO MOVE AT YOUR PARTNER’S PACE
Kissing should be compared to soldiers doing a slow march; notice the unison and cohesiveness; that’s what kissing is all about. You should never be faster than your partner; it would only kill the vibe. Kissing at the same pace would heighten the passion between you and your partner.
6. NEVER BE A STALE KISSER
A stale kisser is someone who just sits back and enjoys the whole kissing thing without kissing back; come on, that’s a dull thing to do. A stale kisser is insensitive to the partner’s feelings. Trust me, you wouldn’t enjoy kissing such a person, it’s boring. Only one person enjoys it; which is the stale kisser. The other partner is just doing everything and he/she might just get frustrated after a while. Learn to move your lips along, learn to kiss back.
7. THE TONGUE
The tongue is one very powerful kissing weapon; it’s a weapon of mass pleasure. When kissing, try to use your tongue to full advantage; use it to fondle other parts of the mouth and the ear lobe as well. The ear lobe is extremely sensitive to the touch of tongue. Using the tip of your tongue can give a whole lot of pleasures to your partner.
Kissing isn’t just a fun thing; it goes way beyond that. Don’t be in a relationship and be a bad kisser. Kissing is just as important as s*x. Don’t concentrate on being good in bed and forget about being a good kisser. A good kisser can steal anyone’s heart.
All these tips given would make your relationship blossom. Always remember that kissing goes way beyond the lips.