Having a relationship that you cherished so much come to end is never an easy experience. No one loves being heartbroken.
If you are having trouble letting go of your ex-boyfriend, these tips below will help
1. DON’T HOLD BACK THE TEARS
The problem with holding back the tears is you keep all the sad emotions inside and don’t let it out. You can’t move on if you hold onto those sad emotions. If you feel the need to cry after a breakup, do it and don’t hold back. Let the tears flow but this should stop after some days at most.
2. DELETE HIS NUMBER
The problem with having his number is that you might want to call or text him when you feel lonely or drunk. When you delete his number and unfriend him on your social media accounts, you won’t find yourself reaching out to him when you are vulnerable.
3. THRASH EVERYTHING THAT REMINDS YOU OF HIM
If you have any gifts or belongings from him that might remind you of him, it’s important you thrash them. You will find it difficult to move on if you still keep things that remind you of him.
4. AVOID ROMANCE MOVIES
The worst time to watch a romantic movie is after a breakup. Don’t do this if you just had your heart broken. Watching romantic movies after a breakup will only make you long for your ex even more.
5. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY
You can’t move on from him quickly if you are always idle. Get yourself busy. This period is the perfect time to learn a new hobby. Going to the gym will also help keep you busy. When you are idle and have nothing to do, you give yourself so much time to think about your ex and miss him. Staying busy will keep your mind off him.
6. AVOID BEING ALONE
The less time you spend alone, the faster you get over him. Spend more time with your family and friends during this period. Being alone always will only make you remember the good times you had with him and that’s not good if you are trying to get over him.
7. GIVE YOURSELF A TREAT
Nobody in this world will love you more than you do so instead of thinking of your ex, go out there and give yourself a good treat. Make yourself feel real good.
Phil