A time may come when everyone you know starts getting married and starts being engaged, and you probably can’t even get a man to be committed to you. These things happen a lot and if you aren’t careful, you might lose it as an individual.
These are some things you shouldn’t do (not even for a second), if you are found in this situation.
1. DON’T START COMPARING YOUR LIVES
You might feel tempted to start comparing your life with your friend, but that will only let bitterness and other negative thoughts into your heart and you’ll fail to see the good things going on in your life.
2. NEVER GET JEALOUS
Never get jealous of anyone for any reason. We all have different paths, and it doesn’t matter who gets there first. Besides, the first at doing a thing isn’t always the best.
3. DON’T HATE YOURSELF
Don’t hate yourself because everyone is getting married and you aren’t; what you even need to know is to love yourself the more.
4. DON’T BELIEVE YOU AREN’T GOOD ENOUGH
Never for a second think that you aren’t good enough. Once you start letting those thoughts in, you’ll start believing it, and when you believe it, you’d stop being good enough.
5. DON’T KILL YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
Don’t let jealousy ruin the good friendship you have because you aren’t getting married yet. It isn’t the fault of your friend(s), so you shouldn’t let it ruin the good relationship with your friend. Besides, good friendships are hard to find.
6. DON’T OVERTHINK
This is another important thing you mustn’t do. Stop overthinking things, or you’ll kill your joy and lose your happiness. Worse still, depression could even step in.
7. DON’T STOP BELIEVING IN LOVE
Never stop believing in love; never stop believing love will find you. Because true love is always worth the wait.
Are all your friends getting married and you aren’t? Don’t lose your happiness. Read 7 reasons not to worry when all your friends are getting married.
ViV