7 THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED

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There is a difference between being in a relationship and the period after being engaged and then the marriage proper.

This article aims to point some things that one should not do after agreeing to marry their partner.

It’s important to observe certain rules before marriage, because engagement is no guarantee for marriage.

Below are certain things people should be wary of before marriage.

1. NOT SETTING BOUNDARIES

After getting engaged or deciding to get married to your partner, it’s important to set boundaries; not setting boundaries at this stage of the relationship could make jealousy and distrust start to breed in the relationship.

Set some boundaries, especially with the opposite sex, so there would be no room for jealousy and distrust.

2. STOP FLIRTING AND HAVING SEX

It’s also important to note that you are closer to getting married at this stage and flirtatious and sexual relationships with others should be a no-no.

Stick to your partner and give no room to any other sexual relationship — not even flirting.

3. DON’T TAKE CONTROL

Yes, you are supposed to get married, but you aren’t married yet — there is still a difference between both. Don’t attempt to take control of the relationship or your partner, rather build a higher level of understanding with your partner.

4. DON’T FOLLOW EVERYTHING YOU HEAR

This is another important advice at this stage of the relationship that should be taken serious, especially by the feminine gender.

At this stage, you would be told a lot of things and be given a lot of advise by friends, relations and a host of others. Be careful who you heed counsel.

5. STOP REVEALING YOUR RELATIONSHIP SECRETS

There are certain secrets that should be between just you and your partner, especially at this stage of the relationship. Keep certain things to yourself rather than tell it to everyone who’s ready to listen.

6. DON’T THINK IT’S OKAY TO LOVE LESS

It’s never okay to love less, not at any stage. The fact that you’ve agreed to marry the man or woman of your dreams doesn’t mean you should relax and love him or her less. Never stop giving your all, never stop loving your man totally and never stop working hard to keep the relationship strong.

7. DON’T ASSUME

Assumption is a tricky habit that could stylishly destroy your relationship even at this stage. Be sure to ask your partner of anything that you aren’t sure of. Assuming things could lead to bad blood even at this stage.

 

These seven things are things that should be stopped by all means if you want your relationship to move smoothly from that point of engagement to marriage.

Shawn 

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