It’s never easy to let go of an ex, especially if that person was a big part of your life. When in a new relationship, it would be unfair to still hold your ex dearly; it’s like punishing your new partner for no reason.
It’s quite easy to tell when a man is still into his ex; he leaves certain clues that she still owns a big part of his heart, and the worst part is you can’t compete with that.
Below are certain signs that your man still holds his ex dear.
1. THEY STILL KEEP IN TOUCH REGULARLY
You would rarely see ex lovers who keep in touch for nothing sake. If he still keeps in touch with her then it’s a huge sign that he isn’t over her. Most times, when people break up, they don’t remain friends anymore; they try to kill the bond that ties them together so that they can move on. But if your man still loves to keep in touch then he isn’t ready to move on.
2. HE STILL STALKS HER ON FACEBOOK
This is common for most exes who haven’t moved on. Research has even found that many people still check on their exes on Facebook; if your man is one of them then his ex is still important to him.
3. HE GETS SAD WHEN SHE HAS A NEW MAN
If your man gets uncomfortable that his ex now has another man then that’s a huge sign he isn’t over her. If he gets flustered whenever he sees them together then that’s a man who hasn’t moved on.
4. HE STILL CLINGS ON TO MEMORIES OF HER
As humans we only love to cling on to memories that we value. If your man still has pictures of her, or certain items that would remind him of her then he hasn’t moved on yet. If he doesn’t hold his ex dear then he wouldn’t keep her memories dearly.
5. IT FEELS LIKE YOU’RE COMPETING WITH HER
If you’re the number one woman in your man’s life then you shouldn’t have to fight or compete for that spot. However, if your man treats you or handles the relationship in a way that signals it’s a competition between you and his ex then it’s obvious he’s still into her.
6. HE’S HER HANDY MAN
When your man becomes the go-to man for his ex then that’s a cause for concern. If he’s the one she has to meet when she has a problem then you ought to watch it. Exes are usually proud to meet each other; but the scenario is different when they aren’t over each other.
7. HE TALKS ABOUT HER ALL THE TIME
It doesn’t matter If it’s just a reference or he talks positive or negative things about her; the truth is, If he still remembers her to always talk about her then she hasn’t left his mind, and probably never will anytime soon.
It never feels good when you have to fight for the number one spot in your man’s heart with his ex; but if these signs are prevalent in your relationship then your man isn’t over his ex – at least, not yet.
ViV