Having sex with an ex could be a tempting proposition sometimes but just before you call your ex and have s*x with him or her, here are 7 reasons why I think it’s a bad idea.
1. YOU BROKE UP WITH YOUR EX FOR A REASON
Before you have s*x with your ex, you need to remember you broke up with your ex for a reason. Having s*x with your ex won’t fix things but would only end up complicating things between you and your ex.
2. HAVING S*X WITH YOUR EX WILL HOLD YOU BACK
You would find it really difficult moving on if you continue to have s*x with your ex. You might say it’s just casual s*x but the truth is that the more s*x you have with your ex, the harder it will become for you to move on.
3. HAVING S*X WITH YOUR EX COMPLICATES THINGS
Having s*x with your ex is like a disaster waiting to happen. When you have s*x with your ex, the sex sometimes makes one of the two to still expect exclusivity and this only complicate things.
4. THERE ARE LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLE YOU CAN HAVE S*X WITH
Why complicate things in your life when there are lots of other people you can choose to have s*x with? Why go back to have s*x with someone who rejected you? Doing this would only destroy your self-esteem.
5. HAVING S*X WITH YOUR EX STRENGTHENS THE BOND
You can’t move on to someone better if you keep having s*x with your ex. Having s*x with your ex strengthens the bond with your ex and makes it difficult for you to move on.
6. HAVING S*X WITH YOUR EX BRINGS BACK MEMORIES
Having s*x with your ex will only bring back memories you really want to forget and most of the memories will definitely be bad memories you are trying to forget.
7. HAVING S*X WITH YOUR EX WON’T BRING BACK YOUR EX
Having s*x with your ex won’t bring back your ex no matter how good the s*x was. So why don’t you move on and share that experience with someone who really wants to be with you.