It’s the little things we tend to neglect that actually makes a relationship last.
Below are 7 little things that matter in a relationship
1. THANK YOU
Many people only say thank you to their partner for things that matter. They never forget to say thank you when their partner gets them a car or a jewelry. But do you say thank you when your partner makes you dinner or tidy your bed?
2. YOU ARE WILLING TO PARTAKE IN YOUR PARTNER’S INTEREST
Little things like showing interest in things your partner enjoys doing matter in a relationship. When you show interest in things your partner enjoys doing, you show your partner that you are willing to leave your comfort zone just to see him/her happy.
3. LITTLE GIFTS
Is your partner eager to watch a certain movie? Have you bothered taking him/her to the cinema to see the movie? Is your partner a pizza freak? When was the last time you bothered getting him/her pizza on way back from work? Little gifts like this matter in a relationship. Little gifts like this show you listen to your partner and care about your partner.
4. ALWAYS TAKE YOUR PARTNER’S SIDE IN PUBLIC
Taking your partner’s side in public is a little act that shows much. Whether your partner is right or wrong, you should never take sides with the opposition. Even in cases when you know your partner is at fault, at least try to bring the argument to an end without taking sides and talk to your partner about it in private.
Complimenting your partner’s looks, personality or something you admire about your partner is a little gesture that can have a huge impact on your relationship.
6. DOING SILLY THINGS TOGETHER
Sometimes we tend to act way too mature and forget our playful sides. Doing silly things together with your partner matters in every relationship. It shows you are comfortable with each other.
7. SAYING “I LOVE YOU”
Your partner knows you love him/her but they still want you to say those words. Don’t forget to look your partner in the eyes and tell him/her that you love him/her. Say it like you mean it.