Friends are a big part of our lives; life would be so boring and incomplete if they aren’t there. They almost always want the best for us and our relationships, but even at that, they could destroy our relationship without even knowing.
It’s typical for a woman to turn to her friends to discuss her relationship highs and lows — the lows especially; when the chips are down, they are the ones we meet for advice, and sometimes they even advise us without our asking.
But who do we really meet for advice? Would their advice make the relationship grow if taken or would it stunt the growth of that relationship?
There are so many kinds of friends we shouldn’t let into our relationships, or else they would easily mess it up.
1. THE ONE WHO DOESN’T BELIEVE IN LOVE
Not everyone believes in love; some see relationships as a game, and a game that should have a winner. But that’s totally wrong, and taking advice from this person about your relationship could definitely worsen your relationship. You remember that friend(s) who laughed and mocked anytime you talk of how much you love your man or that friend who would ridicule you for being faithful to a single man — that’s the kind of friend you should avoid taking advice from.
2. THE ONE WHO CAN’T KEEP A PARTNER
This category is divided into two sets of women. The first set is the promiscuous woman — one man isn’t enough for her, she doesn’t really understand what it means to value a relationship; such a person shouldn’t be met for advice. The second set is the lady who doesn’t know how to keep her man; the type that moves from one failed relationship to another without realizing that the fault is hers and not that of the men she meets. These types of women are terribly doing something wrong that just keeps chasing their man, but they don’t know. Imagine what would happen to your relationship if you take counsel from this bunch.
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