7 HABITS THAT CAN KILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Habits are frequent behavioral patterns or psychological patterns gotten through constant repetition of an action. Habits are involuntary, part of a human and are hard to curb out.

Some habits really are destructive and can kill your relationship. When they are done frequently, it becomes way too annoying to your partner till he/she loses all hopes of that relationship.

I bring you seven habits that can kill your relationship or tarnish it beyond repairs.

1. GOSSIPS

Ladies are mostly fond of this and it pisses men off. Gossip is a habit that can bring disrepute to your relationship. Ladies that talk too much have a higher probability of having a trouble-filled relationship than more reserved ladies. Gossip would never bring any good to your relationship, rumours as well. Ladies that gossip a lot would even talk about their man without knowing. When gossip becomes a habit then your relationship would always be on the spotlight.

2. ANGER

I doubt if there is any habit that would kill your relationship as quick as anger. Anger is a deadly parasite that can do and undo; anger can never bring anything good to your relationship. Anger can make you hate someone you love at that moment of tension and can make you take so many hasty and stupid decisions. Self-control is needed, else when anger is a habit in your life and in your relationship, your relationship would be heated almost all the time.

3. ARGUMENTS

There are friendly arguments and bitter arguments; friendly arguments can even be fun most times but I’m not referring to that. Bitter or heated arguments can ruin your relationship; it depicts anything but unison. When heated arguments are always at the forefront in your relationship, then it just shows so many negative things such as lack of understanding, immaturity, lack of unity, opinionated character and ego are also shown here.

4. DISCONTENT

Discontent clearly shows dissatisfaction, greed and other ugly heads that shouldn’t be found in a relationship. Show me a couple that are always discontented and I would show you a couple with so many problems. When there is a lack of appreciation for the little done, there would be little eagerness` to do more. Appreciation makes one feel happy and makes his or her act feel worth it. Discontent is just a relationship killer.

5. NAGGING

Nagging is a trait mostly found in women but notwithstanding, some men are also involved in nagging. When a partner or both people in a relationship nag then that relationship is just like an explosive object kept beside a hot flaming fire; it can explode at any time; it’s more like a time bomb waiting to explode. Nagging should never be made a habit if you value your relationship.

6. COMPARISONS

People have this bad habit of comparing their partner to others in their own relationship. That really is a bad habit and one thing you should know is that you can never tell the true story of another relationship, what you see on the spotlight might not be what it really is. Comparing your man or your lady to another just reduces his or worth and that really is not good for that relationship.

7. LIES

Personally, I don’t rate a man who has a habit of lying higher than a man who cheats; you may disagree but I think that it’s the truth. Lies would only reveal same characteristics that a cheating man exhibits. You can’t trust a cheating man as well as a lying man. Lies would kill any relationship; it kills trust and any relationship without trust would definitely not stand. Trust is something every relationship should have.

These 7 listed traits are relationship killers and can pull down even the strongest of relationships. When they become habits, the relationship would even face severe consequences.

Why kill a relationship when it would be harder to build it?

Shawn

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3 Comments on "7 HABITS THAT CAN KILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP"

  1. thanks a lot! i liked it very much,especially no 2!

  2. #8 PORN! yeah yeah I know you guys out there say its just to help you get off but when you get addicted to it and it consumes alot of your time .. and when your wife or girlfriend can’t get you going anymore like that does then its goodbye to you!

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