A woman that a man wants and a woman he needs are two different people, they might look similar at first viewing but they are two different people.
In July, I did a piece on: are you the woman a man wants or the one he needs? Both sets of women are really a delight but the woman a man needs edges all others by being the woman her man delights in.
Being a woman a man needs doesn’t just come like magic, it’s attitudinal, and it has a lot to do with cutting down your ego and working on your flaws to becoming a better person with each passing day.
There are so many ways a woman can be the one a man needs, but I would emphasize on six important tips.
1. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER WORTH
If a woman doesn’t know what she’s worth, she would be treated such. A woman first and foremost needs to understand who she is and what she’s worth; it’s not pride, it’s not ego, it’s understanding who you really are, and if you can’t understand who you are, no man would appreciate you for who you are.
2. SHE COMPLEMENTS HER MAN
The woman a man needs complements her man, she tries to be every good thing her man isn’t; she has the wisdom to understand that being a man comes with a lot of responsibilities and a woman ought to complement or be that helpmate for her man. She complements her man in his daily activities, she helps him through difficult situations, she doesn’t make the relationship to be about her and she does all these without looking back.
3. SHE IMPROVES HERSELF
It takes only a woman that a man needs to continually understand that there is a need to improve herself; she isn’t the type to win an argument as she knows it wouldn’t help in any way, she’s honest and trustworthy, and those things which makes her imperfect, she works on them gradually. It takes huge wisdom for any person to understand his or her flaws and work on them.
4. SHE TAKES THE RELATIONSHIP SERIOUS
If you have ever been in a relationship that you didn’t really take serious then you would totally understand what it means to take a relationship serious. The woman a man needs takes her relationship serious, she doesn’t let unnecessary things linger on and cause a divide between her and her man, she’s original and doesn’t try to make unnecessary comparisons between her relationship and that of others; her relationship is too important to her to take it for a joke.
5. SHE IS A SHOULDER FOR HER MAN TO LEAN ON
One quality of a woman a man needs is that she can be that shoulder for her man when he needs someone to lean on. Even if men don’t say this but sometimes we really need that kind of woman that we can actually depend on when the chips are low, when stress takes a toll or when things doesn’t seem to be working. The woman a man needs doesn’t just provide a shoulder for her man, she’s also a listener; she listens to her man and gives encouragement and advice when necessary. That’s the woman a man needs.
6. SHE’S A KEEPER
The woman a man needs is the perfect definition of a keeper, and all her traits would make her man want to keep her. She’s faithful, understanding, loves her man for who he is and doesn’t care about what the world thinks, she isn’t carried away by irrelevant things, she looks at the bigger picture.
However, I wouldn’t end this piece with just emphasizing only on being the woman that a man needs. You can be the woman that a man needs but you ought to say yes to a man that really needs you. You can be the woman the whole world needs but it wouldn’t change anything if you are in a relationship with a man that doesn’t know this.
Shawn