The 20s age is an important time in a person’s life and it’s the bedrock for how the rest of one’s years on earth would pan out.
The 20s age is very dicey; many mistakes are made at this point and many people find their feet at this time too.
There are certain unnecessary and undue pressure many 20s people put themselves under.
1. TRYING TO IMPRESS
It’s normal at this age to want to impress friends, family, neighbours, the opposite sex, old school mates and just about anyone that comes their way. Living your life like this would definitely put you under great pressure to meet those unnecessary high expectations you have given to people about yourself. To meet those high expectations or impress those people who matter, you would make a lot of bad and terrible decisions.
2. LIE ABOUT THEIR EARNINGS
20s people tend to do this a lot, and this is mostly done to impress people, boost their ego or just to play along that they are doing well in life.
20s people lie a lot about how much they rake in and this is just an unnecessary way of putting themselves under undue pressure.
3. COMPETE WITH FRIENDS
Life is not a competition and it’s surprising how people take life to be a competition. Everyone has a path to follow, but more often than not people tend not to believe that.
20s people compete with friends irrespective of their different family backgrounds, income and responsibility. This is another unnecessary way they put themselves under pressure.
4. LIVE ABOVE THEIR MEANS
A lot of people in their 20s find themselves living above their means and even way above their means. The reasons for this act aren’t farfetched; trying to make an impression, competing with friends, living a lie, desire for fun and luxury (which are above their means) etc are some of the reasons why people in their 20s live such lifestyle.
5. MY LIFE HASN’T TURNED OUT AS IT SHOULD
This is another way many 20s persons put themselves under pressure. When many 20s people look at their lives and feel that they should be doing better, they begin to feel pressured, and if care isn’t taken this can push them to make many mistakes.
The most important thing they should know and do is give their best, work hard and be focused, and things will pan out in time.
6. I’M THE ONLY ONE STILL STRUGGLING
Many 20s persons put themselves under pressure whenever they perceive that everyone is going ahead in life apart from them. Thoughts like this would definitely put anyone under pressure.
Putting yourself under pressure would never take you to those heights you so desire, rather it’s important to work hard, give in your best and make the right decisions.
PhilÂ