The marriage decision is one of the toughest. Sometimes, you think you’re so sure about your choice, but the truth is you could be very wrong. There are a lot of people who have fallen into the wrong marriages as a result of carelessness. I think that when it comes to marriage, the best thing to do is to take your time and examine the person you’re with before making your decision.
There are several factors that we often ignore that sometimes suggest we shouldn’t marry the people in our life. Here are some of them.
THEY HAVE CHEATED ON YOU
Cheating is a forgivable offence in a relationship. Just because a person has cheated doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll do it again, however some people are totally incorrigible. Some people find it hard to leave certain habits, and they’ll never change until they get tired or something awful gets at them. So if your partner has cheated once, it’s very possible they’ll repeat the same in future, so unless you’re ready to have that troubling your mind for the rest of your relationship, cutting ties might be a good idea.
YOU’RE NOT COMPATIBLE FINANCIALLY
Compatibility goes beyond just emotions. Sometimes, the person you’re dating could be on an entirely different wavelength when it comes to certain things like money. You don’t want to marry a person who thinks that spending frivolously is the best way to live, neither do you want to be with someone who would ask for more than you can actually afford to part with. The goal is to grow, not to stay stuck.
YOU’RE JUST NOT SURE
Sometimes, our hunches can be very spot on. Sometimes, you just get the feeling that pursuing a particular course of action may not be the best in the long run, based on what you’ve seen. When you get these feelings, it’s not out of place to take a minute to actually consider your own thoughts, and perhaps take them, because you just may be right.
YOU’RE NOT EXCITED TO SPEND TIME WITH THEM
Every right relationship involves lots of time. You spend as much time with your partner as you can because it’s exciting, and you look forward to it. When you find yourself feeling happier away from them, it’s better to not even think of marrying them.
FRIENDS AND FAMILY DON’T LIKE THEM
It’s not every time a friend or family member expresses reservation about your partner that they’re hating or just being dramatic, sometimes, they’re just being honest. It could also be that they’re in a better position to tell you about the person you’re with because there isn’t any emotional attachment on their side.
YOU’RE SCARED OF THEM
You’re not supposed to fear you’re partner, you’re supposed to be free and feel secure around them. If you’re scared of them perhaps because they don’t allow you express yourself fully or they show violent tendencies now and then, then there’s every possibility he’ll be worse in marriage.