6 TRAITS A MAN SHOULD HAVE BEFORE YOU TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP SERIOUS

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‘Look before you leap’ is an advice every lady should adhere to before entering a relationship. One major reason a lot of ladies get hurt is because they jump into a relationship without thinking for a second, and by the time they get to realise what they’re into, it’s already too late.

There are certain traits a guy should have or exhibit before you take a relationship with him further. Every lady ought to know that not every guy can handle being in a relationship, and not every guy that comes calling has genuine interests.

If these traits that would be discussed are lacking in a man then you ought not to take a relationship with him serious.

1. HE MUST KNOW WHAT HE WANTS

Some men are indecisive even when it comes to relationships. Before you take him serious, he ought to know that you’re the one he wants, and he ought to show it too. If he’s here today and there tomorrow then that’s a man you should take your mind off. If he doesn’t know or show that you’re the one he wants then having a serious relationship with him might be suicidal.

2. HE SHOULD HAVE GOALS AND VISION FOR HIS LIFE

If he doesn’t have direction in life where then would the relationship lead? A man who isn’t visionary for himself would hardly ever make a decent partner; he would be commitment phobic, he would have little desire to be better, and who knows? He might even take you backwards too.

A man with vision knows what he wants in life and what he wants in a woman; a man with vision would make you better.

3. HE SHOULD BE CONSIDERATE

Does he think more of himself or of the relationship? This is one question every lady needs to answer before going further in that relationship. If he always puts himself first before everything then it means at best you would only take second place in his life. If he lets out such a sign so early in a relationship, it might become worse if that relationship grows into marriage. A man who thinks just about himself is one of the worst relationship partners out there, and a relationship with him would definitely be difficult.

4. HE SHOULD BE TRUSTWORTHY

Before you take him serious, he should be able to win your trust. He should score high in being a responsible man and a responsible person; he should be honest and open with you, he should be sincere and straightforward, and he also shouldn’t be the one who can’t keep his pants down.

5. MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON

Most ladies don’t watch out for this trait but it’s a highly important one. A relationship should make you better; if it takes you backward as a person then that’s a relationship that isn’t suitable for you. If a man has this trait of wanting to make you better then he’s a gentleman with many other charming qualities that would make you happy.

6. HE SHOULD RESPECT YOU

Many women end up with men that don’t respect them. A man who hits you at the slightest instance is one that you should be wary of. If he respects you, he would want to treat you right, and if he treats you right, you would definitely have a happy relationship with him. So, yes! Respect is a vital trait you should consider.

 

Like I mentioned earlier, you should look before leap into a relationship. Jumping into a relationship puts you at risk; not every relationship is worth it.

ViVĀ 

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