No one wants to be out on a boring date; it seems like a waste of time and it always ends in regrets, as many people end up saying: I should have stayed at home.
Having an enjoyable date isn’t as difficult as people think. You don’t have to be the smartest, wealthiest or most hilarious person to cook up an interesting date.
These tips will help you:
1. FIRST IMPRESSION MATTERS
First impression is everything; it could make or break the date. Research has found that people will have an opinion of you just within the first ten seconds of meeting you and this is true.
So dress well, look neat and be the best presentation of yourself. Also, remember to dress according to the occasion; don’t underdress or overdress.
2. BE YOURSELF
Nothing beats being original; don’t try to impress with huge vocabularies or try to be hilarious or anything. Just be calm, confident and be you. Nothing can beat this.
Your confidence level will either give your personality a boost or bring it down. You might not be the best looking guy or lady around, but your confidence level can even give you the edge over the better looking folks.
Boost your self-confidence; don’t be afraid of what to say or what your date will think of you. Just see yourself as a wonderful person irrespective of how that person sees you.
You make the date enjoyable when you are confident compared to when you are lacking in self-esteem.
4. SMILE MORE
Nothing beats a smiling face; it would make the atmosphere around you feel relaxed and welcoming. Let out a smile every now and then, and even when you aren’t smiling, put on a relaxed expression.
You make a conversation easier when you smile.
5. FLOW WITH THE CONVERSATION
Don’t do all the talking, don’t force out answers, don’t go at a faster pace than your date; just relax and let the conversation flow. Don’t try to know things you aren’t supposed to know, don’t be a jerk and don’t ask questions you aren’t supposed to ask. Just let the conversation flow naturally.
6. DON’T TRY TO DO TOO MUCH
This is where a lot of people miss it; they tend to overdo certain things and this always backfires. Don’t be eager to impress anyone, because you’d find yourself talking too much and even pretending to be who you are not. Just be natural.
A lot of would-be relationships die at the first date, just because it ended being so boring or lacked spice.
Whether you are a guy or lady, these tips would be beneficial to you.