People usually complain of how boring their sex life is; sex could be boring sometimes because people don’t consider certain things before jumping into the act; there are certain tips if followed would give you the best result ever.
Well, I’m among the people who feel that sex and love-making are two different things entirely. They might be the same noun and have same meaning and pass through same process but they are two entirely different things. People have sex with a prostitute; that’s not love-making; love-making goes further than just the intercourse; it’s for two genuine hearts that really feel something for each other.
There are things to consider that would make your love-making be one from a different planet; love-making isn’t an act you just rush into; remember if you need the best, you have to plan for the best.
I’d share with you six things that would help you get the best out of your love-making.
1. THE PLACE
Making love is kind of psychological; it doesn’t just involve two bodies but it involves two minds as well. The place you make love is very important; when love is being made in a dirty environment or an environment that won’t spark up the mood or somewhere uncomfortable then it won’t have a great effect. But when you make love in an airy place, somewhere neat and peaceful, somewhere that can connect both your minds together then surely you would have one of the best love-making ever.
2. THE PERSON
If the person to be involved with isn’t someone you don’t care about then the love-making won’t really be fantastic; but when love is made with someone who you really feel something for, there would be a difference. Like the name implies ‘love making’, If you make love to one that you really do care about, it would be amazing; you can’t make love with every other person with an organ out there and expect it to be same.
3. THE MOOD
The mood that comes with lovemaking is another important one; sometimes there is a mood to make love and sometimes there isn’t. People sometimes go beyond the mood just to make love; such won’t be great as when compared to two lovers that are in the mood for each other and decide to make love. There is nothing like when two people crave each other; at this point, you would have one of the best ever.
4. ENERGY LEVELS
Energy levels are important as well; if one person is extremely tired and the other is energized, the love making won’t be great but when both partners have rested and are full of energy, it would be a delightful ride. Sex takes a lot of energy; so it needs a good amount of energy to have the desired result.
5. NEVER GET TOO OLD FASHIONED; build the passion
Gone are those days when people make love anyhow; to make love you have to add life to it; always do something that would make the love-making bliss; some light music would do, a glass of wine isn’t bad for starters. One thing about love-making is that if you rush into it, it won’t be as enjoyable as when you build the passion because it’s the passion that makes the difference.
6. FOREPLAY IS A MUST
And yes, foreplay brings out the passion too; love making without foreplay is like cooking food without salt; it would definitely have no taste. Foreplay adds that spice; it adds that taste, it makes the passion level intense; never be in a hurry to eat a meal before it’s done just because you are hungry, you won’t enjoy it afterwards; that’s why appetizer is always served before the main meal.
These six tips would give you the best you desire from that love-making act with your lover; as simple as they seem, they are effective. One thing that make love making between couples suffer is that they are always in a hurry; just relax and have the best time with that person that you truly do love; create moments that would live forever.
S.O.Z
There is nothing like too much sex whe you are in love