You probably must have heard a lot of men talk about wife material; this isn’t a myth, men till this day talk about women who are wife material.
A lot of women want to be wife material in a man’s eyes, but end up going about it the wrong way a lot of the times.
There are so many things men consider deep in their hearts besides the usual motherliness, being responsible, homely and caring. There are deeper things the 21st century man is interested in.
The 21st century man loves a woman that’s genuine and not the one that’ll try to impress him. Most women who try to impress the 21st century man ends up repelling him – and that’s the honest truth. Rather, he’s impressed by a woman who will be honest, real, true and genuine; a woman who’s herself at all times.
2. HARD TRUTH
The 21st century man gets awed by a woman who tells him the hard truth. Most women tend to beat around the bush, but when he sees a woman who tells him the hard truth, she makes an impression in his heart, because such a woman will make him a better person – and that’s what makes her a wife material to him.
3. LOVE THEM DEEPLY
The 21st century man wants a woman whose love is deep; a woman who will love him not for what he has but for who he is, and a woman who’ll be there for him at his lowest point. Women like these are few, but the rare ones are the ones the real 21st century men will do anything to make their wife.
4. WOMEN WHO MAKE THEM HAPPY
Every man loves to be happy, and a woman who knows just how to make a man happy is a wife material, as far as the 21st century man is concerned. Most marriages from the past century even till present times are filled with unhappiness, and the 21st century man needs to be sure that being with that woman will bring him happiness.
5. EMOTIONAL STABILITY
Some women are emotionally unstable, and this worries men who are potential suitors. An emotionally unstable woman will find it hard to put a check on her emotions and she acts impulsively; her temper could get out of control for just a slight incident, she could be moody all through the day because of a little incident and she could be the most caring woman this minute and the worst the next minute. Such a woman is the 21st century man’s nightmare. But a woman who’s emotionally stable will win his heart over and over again.
The 21st century man is also drawn to a woman who’s mature – a woman who will handle misunderstanding maturely and who he can have a peaceful marriage with.
You can cook and clean all day and still won’t win that man’s heart, because these six things above are a summary of what the 21st century man calls a wife material.