Most times the three things that fill a man’s head in a relationship are s*x, s*x and s*x. I don’t even need any research to confirm that men are overly obsessed with s*x; hardly would you see any man who can survive a relationship without getting a piece of the cake.
I’m not trying to portray women as a gender without soul and passion or as people who don’t also crave for s*x, no; I’m only saying that’s not all that matters; some things are important as well.
I haven’t seen a woman who doesn’t crave for attention from her man; attention makes a woman feel special, it makes her feel loved and relevant. Attention shouldn’t only come when he has an urge to satisfy, no; attention should be part and parcel of the relationship.
There is this question that keeps going through my head and I still can’t think of a logical answer; why would a man ask a lady out, expect her to be faithful and still cheat? What’s the need? Every lady expects her man to be faithful at least; dating a cheat really hurts.
3. MAKE HER FEEL LOVED
A woman basically goes into a relationship not just for the fact that she’s in love but she expects to be loved in return as well, and every sane lady in a relationship would choose love over s*x any time any day. Being loved by her man makes the relationship worth it.
4. LISTEN TO HER
Most men are guilty of not listening to what their lady have to say. Sometimes love and s*x aren’t enough, those little things that follow are also important. If you can actually listen to your lady 99.9 percent then there would probably be fewer problems in that relationship.
5. BE THERE FOR HER
You can’t imagine what goes through a lady’s head sometimes; the cause of the mood swing, the tears, the laugh, the smile, the worried face and every other thing means something. Sometimes all a lady just needs is a man who can be there for her at all times. If she has that kind of man; every worry, every fear would seem so little because she knows she has someone who cares and who would be there at all times.
6. MAKE HER HAPPY
Any man who can continually make his lady happy has not just the key to her heart but the spare key as well. These five things previously listed would make a lady happy but it doesn’t end there; those little dates, surprises, things that would make her smile and the lot would keep her happy, and that’s the key to a happy relationship.
A wise man once told me “the secret to a happy relationship is keeping your lady happy”; if she’s happy then the relationship would be happy.
Rihanna said it all in her song “only girl”, just make your lady feel like the only girl in the world.