If you want your relationship to last, you need to have a healthy relationship. If your relationship has the signs listed below then your relationship need an examination. If the issues aren’t fixed, your relationship might crash sooner than you expect.
1. YOU CAN’T STAND YOUR PARTNER’S FAMILY
You can’t have a relationship with a future if you can’t stand your partner’s family because your partner’s family is always going to be in the picture some way or another whether you like it or not. You have to find a way to work things out and maintain a smooth relationship with your partner’s family for the sake of your relationship.
2. YOU ALWAYS WANT TO HAVE IT YOUR WAY
A relationship is between two persons so you shouldn’t always expect to have it your way. Your relationship needs a serious check-up if your partner always has to submit to your will even when they want something different. A healthy relationship should have an environment where both partners can talk about what they want and both partners are also willing to compromise. It shouldn’t always be about you in your relationship, you need to let your partner have their way sometimes.
3. ALWAYS COMPARING YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO THAT OF OTHERS
Your relationship needs a proper check-up if you always compare your relationship to that of others. The truth is that relationship you always compare your relationship with might just be doing worse than your relationship. Partners in healthy relationships appreciate each other and never compare their relationship with the relationship of others. Comparing your relationship with that of others creates baseless doubts and problems that don’t even exist.
4. POOR COMMUNICATION
Your relationship needs a proper check-up if there isn’t a proper communication. Every healthy relationship feeds off good communication. When the communication in your relationship is poor, it creates a distance between you and your partner which can harm your relationship.
5. FREQUENCY OF S*X DROPS
If the frequency of s*x with your spouse has dropped rapidly, then your relationship needs a quick check-up. You need to ask yourselves what’s really causing the decline in s*x with your spouse because sometimes it could be that the passion in the relationship has dropped or you no longer create time for your spouse.
6. YOU NO LONGER CREATE TIME TO BE WITH YOUR PARTNER
When was the last time you had a date with your partner? Most probably can’t even remember. Your relationship needs a proper check-up if you rarely create out time to be with your partner or you rarely look forward to dates with your partner when you even plan them. Your relationship needs a proper check if dates with your partner are more like a necessary exercise instead of something you enjoy and look forward to.
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