When a man feels you are bugging him, it’s so easy to detect as sometimes his every move, action and words point to the fact that he isn’t happy with your continual presence in his life.
So many factors can make a man think that you are bugging him; when he feels you add little to his life, when he’s fed up of being with you, when he has so many things to worry about and doesn’t want you to add to his numerous worries and a host of other things.
One thing is for sure, if your man feels you’re bugging then you probably need to let him be at that point in time or else it might even become worse; though I won’t be far from the truth if I say that once he starts thinking that you are bugging then he’s already getting tired of the relationship.
6 signs he thinks you are bugging
1. HE GETS EASILY FRUSTRATED
When a man is buoyed by your presence, he makes it felt; he hardly gets angry at your mistakes and sees little reasons to get angry with you. However, once he starts to feel you are bugging him, everything changes, he gets frustrated easily and he makes it obvious even without knowing; once frustration begins to step in and he vents it on you then it’s a clear sign that he thinks you are bugging.
2. HE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT SPACE
Space, space, space; that’s the most subtle word to use that literally says you are bugging him and he needs you to away at the time. When a man is into you, he wants you around all the time but the moment he feels you are bugging him, he starts looking for excuses to stay away from you and the need for space comes up inconspicuously till he makes it clear.
3. HE PICKS UP QUARRELS EASILY
This is another clear sign that your man feels you’re bugging him. There is a big difference between picking up quarrels and picking up quarrels easily; the first tip talks about him being easily frustrated, that frustration would lead to him picking up quarrels easily. Once your man begins to pick up easy quarrels, especially from things that should hardly ever make him quarrel then you should know that he thinks you are bugging him.
4. COMPLAINS
Once a man starts getting that thought that his lady his bugging, he complains about virtually everything, there is hardly nothing that would please him at that moment, he would hardly compliment the good but wouldn’t hesitate to point out the bad, it would be like he feels irritated at almost everything you do.
5. HARDLY EVER WANTS TO SEE YOU
Back to the matter of space, when a man feels that he needs some space in that relationship, he would hardly feel your importance at that time and seeing you would be less of his priorities; at this stage, he would make up loads upon loads of excuses just to be away from you.
6. LOSES CARE AND INTEREST IN YOU
I would round off with this tip, not because it’s the most important but this is quite the most revealing and probably hurtful of them all. When a man feels you are bugging him, he wouldn’t feel happy by your presence and would gradually lose interest in you and his care for you would begin to diminish as well.
It doesn’t just end with concentrating on the signs that a man feels his lady is bugging, sometimes women are the architect of their own problems, they push their man to the wall and still expect him to show all the care in the world.
ViV