A boring lady would most likely make a boring girlfriend, and being a boring girlfriend might not really help your relationship.
Every relationship needs that spark, and you can agree with me that being boring wouldn’t bring that spark to the relationship.
Being boring can also make your man easily get of the relationship if care isn’t taken.
Below are possible signs you are a boring girlfriend.
1. YOU ONLY LISTEN
This is one huge sign of a boring girlfriend. When you are the kind of lady that only listens but rarely add to the conversation then this could be a cause for concern.
A conversation is healthy and lively when both partners are actively involved. If you are the kind of girlfriend who only listens then you are most likely a boring girlfriend.
2. YOU DO NOTHING SURPRISING
A lively girlfriend would pull up one or two surprises on her man, but never the boring woman — she keeps doing the same routine every other day, and she’s highly predictable.
3. YOU RARELY LAUGH
When you are the type of girlfriend who rarely laughs or play with her man then you are a boring girlfriend. If you take everything serious and personal then it shows you are a boring girlfriend.
4. YOU ALWAYS GIVE EXCUSES NOT TO HAVE FUN
When you keep giving fresh excuses so you wouldn’t have fun, but you prefer to stay indoors all day long then you are just another dull girlfriend. You ought to have fun and good moments with your man; being the fun spoiler speaks volume of how boring you are.
5. SEX WITH YOU IS BORING TOO
If you are a boring girlfriend, at least try to be lively in the sex department; but if sex with you can be compared to a log of wood then you’re probably the most boring girlfriend on earth.
6. YOU LOVE TO TALK ABOUT YOURSELF
When you are the type of girlfriend that always or mostly want to talk about yourself then it’s boring. To be fair to your man, if all he has to do is listen to you talk about yourself almost every day then you are probably the most boring person to be with on earth.
I know that a lot of people are boring not because they want to, but because of the kind of reserved personality they have. But this doesn’t mean you can’t still maintain your reserved personality and be the most lively lady to your man.
I doubt if any man wants a boring relationship; so why don’t you shake off every boring act you do and add live to your relationship.