Not every man loves a committed relationship; some men hate commitments, and in all honesty, being with them is a total waste of time.
A lot of these commitment phobic men know that every woman loves commitment, so they play along even though deep down they aren’t serious about the relationship.
Many women have fallen into the hands of these commitment-phonic men without knowing, and the ones who later find out take so long to do so. Well, today is your lucky days as this article would reveal the signs of a commitment-phobic man.
1. HE ONLY RESPONDS TO SEX
Every commitment-phobic man loves sex, and they’re only in the relationship because of the sex and what they can gain. If he only responds to things that would incite sex and frown at other relationship necessities then that’s a man that doesn’t want commitment. Deny him sex and he would leave before you know it.
2. HE RARELY SAYS HE LOVES YOU
A commitment-phobic man doesn’t like to speak about love, and when he says he loves you, it doesn’t feel genuine. A man scared of commitment would rather not say he loves you except it’s probably going to let him into your pants; other than that, an ‘I love you’ would be a forlorn story.
3. WHEN HE DOES, HE DOESN’T ACT IT
Some commitment phobic men understand that they ought to tell a lady how much they love her. He knows he doesn’t love her, but he says the words to keep her. This kind of man is a smooth talker, he would say everything a lady wants to hear, but his actions wouldn’t match his words.
4. SHY OF RESPONSIBILITIES
A commitment-phobic man hates commitment and the responsibilities that come with it. His communication level is poor, he would rather not go on dates, he would balk at giving gifts and generally every responsibility that comes with relationships. Sex only is what triggers him.
5. NO FUTURE PLANS
The commitment-phobic man is definitely scared of planning a future with a woman, he avoids this at all cost; you would never hear him talk about the future, you would never him talk about marriage or having kids — he lives in a shell called today, and that’s all that matters to him.
6. IT’S A CLOSE CIRCUIT RELATIONSHIP
By close circuit, I mean, he wouldn’t introduce to his family, there won’t be PDA, you might never get introduced to his friends — your relationship with him would just be in-house, and that would be it.
If your man exhibit any of these signs then you should really watch it, he might just be commitment phobic, and a relationship with him would be one without a future.
ViV