‘I love you’ are three powerful words that holds a lot of weight but its importance have been called into question because of how it’s been used for selfish purposes or reasons that show things contrary to love.
A guy could say ‘I love you’, and not mean it, either for some selfish purpose or when he’s unsure of his feelings i.e. when he confuses his feelings for love.
Below are some signs he said it too soon
1. IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT
If he says he loves you during a moment of intimacy then it could be that he said it rather too quick. The urge for sexual intimacy or a moment of intimacy can make a man have a gush of emotions, making him to use the words ‘I love you’ even though he doesn’t probably mean it.
2. TO TRICK YOU INTO SEX
This is also another reason he could say the words ‘I love you’ too soon. There is quite a difference if he says it during the heat of the moment and when he says it just because he knows it would make you vulnerable to have sex. If he sees this weakness then he would utilise it no matter how soon it is.
3. WHEN HE DOESN’T MATCH IT WITH HIS ACTS
‘I love you’ shouldn’t just be in words, it should be in action. If he says ‘I love you’ and acts differently then there is every reason he said it pretty too soon.
4. WHEN YOU DON’T FEEL THAT WAY YET
Love is also a feeling that needs to be reciprocated. If you meet a guy newly, and he’s rushed into saying how much he loves you and you don’t quite have such feelings then he probably said it too soon.
5. HE ISN’T ONE FOR THE FUTURE
If he says he loves you and doesn’t act like he sees a future with you then that’s one ‘I love you’ that is far from reality. A love that would last only today is no love at all.
6. WHEN YOU JUST MET HIM
Though there is always an exception, but meeting a lady and expressing love to her after a couple of days sound a bit too rushed. Love comes in stages and phases, and it grows with time too; if you rush into it, you might rush out of it too.
Saying ‘I love you’ is the easy part, and most times it comes too soon.
ViV