Relationships are a two-way thing; it needs understanding and cooperation from two partners who really care about each other to make it grow. However, some people forget about the essence of a relationship and let certain things come in the way of their relationship.
Selfishness is really a bad relationship trait, and it’s one that could totally destroy a relationship. Somehow, some people exhibit selfish traits without even knowing, while some know but still don’t care, and that is even a greater height of selfishness.
After careful observation, I’ve noticed some things men do in a relationship/marriage which truly exhibits selfishness. Sorry brothers, if you belong in this category listed below then it’s time for a change.
6 selfish things men do while in a relationship
1. DATE A LADY FOR MANY YEARS WITH NO INTENTION OF BEING SERIOUS WITH HER
Surprisingly, we are in a society which believes that as a woman ages, her stock begin to depreciate, while that of the man continues on the ascendancy for a longer time. The selfish thing about this is some men go on to date a lady for many, many years with no intention of ever being committed, while the lady dreams of a beautiful diamond ring for a proposal that would never come. A lady I know was even engaged to a man for over seven years, only for the man to recently call it off— now imagine the heartbreak. Sadly enough, there are many cases like this and it’s called SELFISHNESS.
2. BEING UNFAITHFUL EVEN WHEN MARRIED
It’s really selfish for someone to cheat on a partner and what’s more selfish is for someone to cheat when married. The worst part is, men tend to cheat more in marriage when the woman starts giving birth. If you are in this category bro, sorry to say, but that’s SELFISHNESS.
3. SPEND MORE MONEY ON A SIDE CHIC
This is another thing we are also a culprit of. We do a lot to get a lady and once she’s given in and have fallen for our antics, we tend to prefer spending more on a side chic to probably impress as well. There are so many married men who would frown at even gifting their wives but would easily shower loads of cash items (and expensive one at that on a side chic); if this is you, that’s SELFISH.
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