6 REASONS YOUR RELATIONSHIP SHOULD OBSERVE A SEX BREAK

So much has been said about ways to spark up the sexual life in a relationship but so little has been made of how to observe a break. Sometimes the pressure of sex can even make a relationship to collapse; observing a break would do a whole lot of good to your relationship.

As shallow as it sounds taking a break from sex might just be the light your relationship needs; after all relationships isn’t all about sex even though people tend to prioritize it.

I would share with you six reasons why a sexual break can sometimes help a relationship. 

1. YOU DISCOVER OTHER RELATIONSHIP VALUES

When sex takes the spotlight, it has a way of shadowing other values that a relationship has. Sex can be domineering and if given too much room it could even take the whole house. But a break away from sex can show you more things that would make a relationship survive without sex. If a relationship can survive without sex, it would definitely survive every other relationship difficulties.

2. IT BRINGS ITS OWN EXCITEMENT

Sometimes, absence of sex can create a flush of excitement that a relationship hasn’t felt before. Let me liken relationship to a game of Play Station; imagine if a game fan is always with his game, it might turn out normal for him as a daily routine but take it away from him for two weeks and then give it back to him; imagine the excitement that would follow; same thing goes with sex.

3. YOU WOULD LEARN MORE ABOUT YOUR PARTNER

Sex break gives the perfect opportunity to know more about your partner; through that break you would as well know what other thing makes that person happy apart from sex. Also, through this break, both partners would create new hobbies and find out other things they can do together.

4. PUTS THE RELATIONSHIP TO A TEST

Sometimes the only thread that holds a relationship is sex and couples in that relationship won’t even know that their relationship has been clueless all the while. A break from sex would give a proper assessment of where and where not to go from there. If during the break there isn’t anything worth keeping you in that relationship then you should know that you have been just sexual partners all along. Sex break is the perfect litmus test to show the strength of a relationship.

5. VALUE IT EVEN THE MORE

Too much of everything definitely kills the beauty or value of that thing and sex is no exception. A break from sex would make you and your partner value sex the more and value the relationship as well. But an abuse of sex would make sex seem so ordinary.

6. EASES SEXUAL PRESSURE

Sometimes sex comes with too much expectations and that in itself creates pressure in the relationship. A break from sex can ease this pressure that comes with sex because sexual pressure can melt down a relationship; even a loving one.

 

A break from sex with your partner might seem a hard task but it isn’t bad after all; it has its own good.

S.O.Z

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