Guys also feel insecure in their relationships and when you are in a relationship with an insecure man, honesty is needed from the both of you. Blaming each other would not solve the insecurity but seeking ways as a team to move past the insecurity issues would definitely help.
Below are 6 reasons your man feels insecure about your relationship
1. HIS PAST
Your man’s past relationship(s) could be the reason for his insecurity. If he was cheated on in the past, he might come into the relationship with you with the assumption that you might also cheat on him and this would definitely make him feel insecure. Show him that he can trust you and also try to be patient with him.
2. YOU ARE ALWAYS TOO BUSY TO BE WITH HIM
Chasing your dreams and seeking space in your relationship is necessary but you also need to be honest with yourself by asking yourself if it would have been possible to spend more time with him? He might become insecure if he feels you don’t give him enough time when it would have been possible for you to.
3. YOU ACT REALLY SUSPICIOUS
Your man would feel insecure if he feels you act really suspicious. It’s okay for you to have male friends you call and chat with but freaking out, covering your phone or screaming when he tries to check your phone sends a wrong message to him. You have your right to your privacy but when you act like you have something to hide in your phone, you act like a suspect. Try to be open and act like you have nothing to hide when you are around him.
4. YOU ARE MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN HIM
It’s definitely not your fault that you are more successful than him but it’s also important to know that this makes some men feel insecure about their relationship. Don’t stop working hard because it makes your man feel insecure but just be a little sympathetic if it gives him a complex about his job. Make him understand that even though you are way successful than he is, it changes nothing in the relationship because you value him more than anyone else in the world
5. YOU ARE HUGE ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Some men feel insecure if their partner is huge on social media as they feel she could be snatched from him by someone better than him, LOL. I understand it’s stupid of him to even think because a guy said you look so hot on Facebook or Instagram means you would dump him for the guy but it’s really important you handle this with care.
6. HE THINKS YOU TREAT HIM MORE LIKE A FRIEND THAN LOVER
When a man thinks you treat him more like a friend than lover, this could make him feel insecure in the relationship. When you rarely hold hands with him when in public or show any form of public display of affection, it could hurt his self-esteem and make him feel really insecure.
Phil