It’s very common to see people in a relationship break up, and then, after a couple of months or days, one of them tries to rekindle the affair. And one begins to wonder, why quit the relationship in the first place? Why leave or agree to a break up if that’s not what you really want? There are different reasons why people do this, and it’s important to understand that while love may sometimes be the genuine motivation, most of the time, it is not the case. So people need to be more careful when dealing with past lovers or exes.
Here are the 6 reasons why I feel exes come back…
1. LUST
Obviously, this has to be on top of the list. More than half the time exes return, they do it because of lust. Once they remember how good you were in bed, or how you were always available for their sexual needs, they run back in the hope that everything can go back to the way it was. Their return has absolutely nothing to do with love, rather, it’s lust-driven.
2. JEALOUSY/ENVY
Some people are so jealous; they can’t stand to see you with someone else even after you’ve broken up. So they keep coming back, and trying to get you back into their claws. Please, know that this isn’t love, rather, it’s something born out of an obsession for you.
There are also situations where exes return to destroy what you have, once they perceive you have moved on into a happier relationship. For them, since they aren’t happy, you can’t be either. This happens with bad break ups.
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i think this is very true
Enter your comment here…some times they think about love had to her or him
Truly said I agree though some do it for revenging of the previous episode
I absolutely will agree with 1&3(Lust and Loneliness) because I have been a direct victim of them both. The others may be down rightly correct but, I have experienced those two. At times you find yourself in a relationship with somebody you don’t love, you do not wish to settle down with, but you hardly let her go because of sexual gains.
This is totally true.Thank for for your advice.
It’s true thus the situation I am in right now