Keeping the flame burning is one of the most difficult tasks (if not the most difficult) in a relationship. Couples tend to get bored with their relationship after months or years of being together.
But what really makes the relationship boring after a while, especially when it felt like the world’s best thing at the beginning?
1. COMMUNICATION STARTS TO DROP
Communication is highly important if you want to keep the flame burning in a relationship, and sometimes it doesn’t end at how often you communicate with your partner but the quality of communication. For example, when the communication pattern between you and your partner revolves around the same things on a daily basis or when there is no positive element like laughter in your communication, it might get stale and boring. Sometimes, communication drops in many relationships to the extent where couples don’t know what to say to each other anymore.
2. YOU BECOME SO USED TO EACH OTHER
When you and your partner become so used to each other to the extent where you take each other for granted, it could become a problem. When this happens, your relationship with your partner would start to feel boring.
It’s okay to feel comfortable with your partner, but it shouldn’t reach a point where you take each other for granted.
3. YOU NO LONGER GO ON DATES
It’s important that you and your partner spend time with each other and enjoy each other’s company. When you stop doing this, your relationship may get boring afterwards.
Also, when going on dates tend to be like an obligation rather than a time you want to enjoy with your partner then the relationship would start getting boring from then on.
4. LAZINESS
Laziness is also another habit that kills relationship these days and makes relationships boring. When you become too lazy to make your partner happy or put a smile on your partner’s face, the relationship would get boring.
5. LACK OF INTIMACY
Intimate moments make the passion intense. Intimacy shouldn’t only be about sex; there are other intimate moments you can have with your partner; you can read that here.
6. YOU DO THE SAME THINGS EVERYDAY
Spontaneity is also important if you want to keep the flames burning. When your relationship becomes too predictable, it could become really boring.
Is your relationship getting boring? Try to bring back the flames now rather than watch it fade away.
ShawnÂ