Being a husband and being a boyfriend are two different roles and this is something every man should understand.
For those aspiring husbands out there, these are 6 brutal truths every married man would tell you about being a husband.
1. DON’T EXPECT YOUR WIFE TO LIKE ALL YOUR FRIENDS
Your wife would accommodate all your friends but she wouldn’t like all your friends. Don’t expect her to like all your friends. Expect your wife to be jealous about certain female friends you have and also expect some tough questioning from her when you introduce her to a new female friend she doesn’t know. Expect your wife to also dislike that friend of yours with a reputation of being a womanizer because she is worried he might hook you up. She also won’t like friends that always make you keep late nights.
2. MONEY MATTERS SHOULD BE TREATED WITH CARE
Money problems can destroy even the strongest relationship if not properly handled. Ensure you are open about your finances so she wouldn’t have high financial expectations. Never forget to listen to what she has to say when discussing money issues. Learn to treat money issues with optimum care.
3. YOUR WIFE ISN’T A PERFECT BEING
Some men expect their wife to be flawless and this is something you should be wary of. No woman is perfect just as no man is too. Expect to notice some flaws after getting married to her. You won’t notice all her flaws before marriage but ensure you notice most before marriage. You should also know that you don’t have to tell her about every little flaw you observe because she also knows so many little flaws about you but restraints herself from doing that to avoid issues. Complaining about every flaw would cause problems in your marriage.
4. YOU GET MORE S*X IF YOU HELP OUT WITH HOUSE CHORES
This is a secret most men don’t know. A woman’s mind is always occupied with thoughts of chores that haven’t been done and errands that haven’t been run so this means she doesn’t think about s*x as much as you do. So if you want her to think about s*x more and give you more s*x, help with the chores and run the errands as this ensures she has nothing else to worry about but s*x. Lol.
5. SOME OF HER UNDERWEAR WON’T BE THE SEXIEST YOU HAVE SEEN
I know you expect her to always wear sexy underwear but you might be left disappointed sometimes. Don’t expect her to wear that hot g-string you love because women have comfy underwear, cotton underwear and also “time of the month” underwear.
6. GOING TO BED TOGETHER WITH YOUR WIFE REALLY HELPS YOUR MARRIAGE
As a husband, you should ensure you reduce the late nights getting drunk with friends and instead ensure you always find time to go to bed together with your wife as this really helps every marriage.