Loving a woman who wouldn’t love you back is a man’s biggest nightmare; any man who’s passed through this phase would attest how hurtful this feeling is.
Love is sweet when you love and you’re loved in return; but definitely, not everyone you love would love you back — that’s a harsh reality of life we must accept.
There are some hard and bitter truths that come with falling in love with a woman who doesn’t love, and only a man who has worn that shoe can totally understand how it feels.
1. A MISERABLE FEELING
Even though most men wouldn’t admit this, but loving the wrong person brings a miserable feeling that takes a long time to go away. When this happens, so many things in the world wouldn’t seem to interest you anymore and the only thing at that point that can help you is that woman you love. And of course, that would only happen in your dreams.
2. GO OVER THE ODDS
Another hard truth that’s associated with loving a woman who wouldn’t love you back is that you would go completely over the odds to get the lady, and of course your efforts would be futile. Worse still, the lady would even see you as desperate and weak when you do this — and this is a very harsh truth.
3. CAN DAMAGE YOUR ESTEEM
The feeling that comes with being rejected by a lady isn’t a good one (not even close). If not careful, the blow that comes with the feeling of rejection can make a man lose his self-esteem and confidence especially amongst women. Rejection breeds that feeling of inadequacy. The tip that would be discussed in the 5th tip would even make matters worse.
4. MOST TIMES YOU WOULD BE TREATED HARSHLY
Loving a woman who isn’t interested in you can result in you being treated harshly and unfairly. Most times, what causes this unfair treatment is the desperation which is explained in the second tip. The woman would perceive such desperate acts as irritating and unwarranted, thereby making her act in such manner.
5. YOU WOULD WATCH ANOTHER MAN GET HER WITH MINIMUM FUSS
This is probably the most bitter of them all, but it’s another harsh truth. Most of the times, when a woman says no to a man who loves her and is desperate for her, they easily say yes to just another man who comes after. This is usually a big blow for most men — that is, watching the woman they love and would kill for being with another man. It doesn’t get worst than this.
6. SLEEPLESS NIGHTS
This is one that’s definitely guaranteed when you love a woman who wouldn’t love you back; your nights become longer and you only dream of one thing — her. Hardly a night would go by without you thinking of her, even though you know it’s in vain.
Loving a woman who wouldn’t love you back is never a good position to be in for a man, but it’s one thing that happens time without number and these harsh truths above just describes some of the ways the man feels.
Shawn