Loving your wife is very important if you want your marriage to succeed. There shouldn’t be a point where you get tired of loving her. Although this could be a bit difficult sometimes, especially if she’s on one of those moods that could be quite irritating.
As difficult as it might get, these tips will help you love her in those hard times.
1. DON’T TAKE HER TOO SERIOUSLY
The first rule to loving that woman even when she seems difficult is by choosing to be at peace and not taking her seriously on those occasions. You don’t have to reply every word and take to heart what she says. If you can master this act, you’d find that those quarrels will never get to escalate.
2. REMEMBER ALL HER GOOD DEEDS
If you look beyond her difficult attitude, you’d see a woman who has been there for you, who you swept off her feet at one time, a woman who still cares, a woman who has done so many good things for you. These alone should be enough motivation to keep loving her even when it seems difficult.
3. BE WILLING TO BE MORE CONSIDERATE THAN USUAL
Choose to think less of yourself and more of her. Selflessness is a key factor to making love last. Selfishness comes with a lot of baggage and when you think of yourself a lot, your marriage will crumble.
4. REMEMBER THAT THIS IS JUST A PHASE
Every bad patch is just a phase; self-control is an important factor that will help you see the beautiful woman you married even when all factors point to the opposite. Just remember that the bad time is just a phase that will pass; your ability to keep calm will go a long way in seeing the beauty of that woman even when all indications point to the contrary.
5. YOUR LOVE IS WHAT KEEPS HER GOING
Love is a mirror that reflects just what you give to it. Give that woman love and she’ll reciprocate love back to you. You’d pass a huge message to her when you love her in her bad moments.
Love goes beyond feelings and emotions; if you only want to love your wife when your feelings say so, then you’d never love that woman the right way. Love is a choice and a decision and only real men can love their wife even when she’s on her most difficult behaviour.
Shawn