We all desire to be in a relationship that would blow our mind, a relationship where everything doesn’t just seem perfect but it’s actually perfect. While desiring for this, we might end up in a wrong relationship, a very unhealthy one. The truth is many of us are in one and we either don’t know or won’t admit it. We also find people who know they are in one and are too scared to leave. We have gotten lots of tips to help you know if you are in an unhealthy relationship and it’s advisable you get out of it if you find yourself in one. Below are signs to help you know if you are in an unhealthy relationship
1. YOUR PARTNER ALWAYS WANTS TO BE IN CONTROL
We sometimes confuse control freaks to be caring. When your partner tries to control everything about you like where you go and other decisions in your life, you just need to watch it. I don’t understand how people become too committed at the start of a relationship and you need to watch out if your partner gets too jealous at the beginning of your relationship.
2. YOUR PARTNER IS QUICK TO THREATEN
When you have a partner that is so quick to threaten you, then you should know you in an unhealthy relationship. When your partner feels the best way to solve a problem is by threatening to quit, then something is not really right. In a healthy relationship, your partner would sit with you and have a good chat with you if they feel something is wrong and not using threats to force you into a corner.
3. ENDLESS ARGUMENTS
You always feel an argument would be the last until another pops up. When you continue in this unending circle, then it’s really a big problem. You should understand that unhealthy relationships are defined by couples always fighting, not forgiving each other and always blaming the other person.
4. TOO MUCH NEGATIVITY
When the insults won’t stop and the criticisms are endless, then you should know you are in an unhealthy relationship. Your partner should make you feel good about yourself and not make you feel you are the worst person in the world. So do you see these signs in your relationship?
5. NO TRUST
When you are in a relationship in which your partner doesn’t trust you or is being too possessive, you should watch out. Such relationships rarely have happy endings.
So if these signs are present in your relationships, then you need to watch out. Try talking to your partner about the dangers ahead and if there seems to be no improvement, then you might consider taking a bow and leaving before the relationship leaves you exhausted.
Jake