It’s really supposed to be fun being single as you get to be free as a bird but in reality it’s really not that simple being single as a lady as you tend to have family and friends putting lots of pressure on you.
Below are 5 things you should stop saying to single women
1. YOUR BIOLOGICAL CLOCK IS TICKING
So many single women get to hear this a lot and mothers are even guiltier of doing this than anyone else. It’s her choice if she wants to have kids or not and it’s really not fair for the society to put so much pressure on single ladies.
2. WHY HAVEN’T YOU MET MR RIGHT?
The society expects women not to act desperate when seeking for a partner yet we put so much pressure on them to get a partner. It’s really not nice. Just because she is single doesn’t mean she should settle for anyone who comes her way.
3. WHY DON’T YOU USE DATING APPS
Advances in technology means it’s now easy to get potential partners by using dating apps but this doesn’t still mean we should put pressure on single ladies to use these apps. There are lots of single ladies out there who still prefer the traditional way to meeting guys.
4. YOU DON’T TRY HARD ENOUGH TO GET A MAN
I still wonder why people say this to ladies that are single. Is she supposed to move around with a placard displaying she is single? Please lets give single ladies a break. Stop pushing her to get desperate in her quest to get a man.
5. YOU ARE LOSING THE ELIGIBLE GUYS
Every lady should aim to settle for a guy who will make her life more meaningful and not a guy that would cause her so much pain. You don’t decide who is eligible for her, she alone can decide that for herself.
Phil