No one is perfect and it’s possible to say something that will hurt your partner terribly and leave deep scars in their heart.
Watching what you say to your partner is very important, and these are some things you should never say to your wife or you might end up hurting her for a very long time.
1. “YOU ALWAYS…”
A lot of men tend to accuse their wives of doing a lot of things; you always do this and you always do that they’d say. Saying things like this will hurt that woman a lot, because it shows that you only see the bad side in her.
2. “I’M THE ONLY ONE…”
When you exalt yourself and bring down your wife, you hurt her feelings and no woman will love this. Stop telling her how you do everything and she does little to help the home, because that is not true; you are only seeing it from your own angle.
3. “LOOK AT THIS OTHER WOMAN…”
Never for any reason compare your wife to any woman; you’d destroy her ego, hurt her feelings and leave her with deep scars for a very long time.
4. “YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF…”
Never blame your wife for your misfortune, never blame her for what’s going wrong in the marriage or probably your children’s bad manners (which many men tend to do). Quit blaming your wife.
5. “I DON’T CARE…”
When you tell a woman that you don’t care, you have succeeded in telling her that you don’t care about her, and that’s the worst message you can pass to your wife.
Be the man who cares and who loves his wife. Be the man who also say the right things to her.
ViV