Just before you complain about the attitude of your wife, you really need to ask yourself if you are doing something that could just have triggered that attitude from your wife. Sometimes men unknowingly hurt their wife without even knowing it and this is sometimes the cause of issues in so many marriages.
Below are 5 things men do that destroy their marriage
1. PUTTING OTHER THINGS BEFORE YOUR WIFE
Your wife expects to be the number one person in your life so when you put other things before her, it really hurts her badly and many men don’t really seem to know this. As a man, so many things are fighting for your time but your wife still expects to be your priority. She wants to be the most important person in your life.
You might not be cheating physically by sleeping with another woman but you can also cheat on your wife emotionally by wishing you were with another woman or by having dirty chats with other women. You hurt your wife when you look at other women lustfully and exchange nude photos with other women. No married man should be doing this if they don’t want to hurt their wife.
3. NOT PROVIDING FOR THE FAMILY
Whether your wife works or not, you still need to provide the basics the family needs. I am not saying the woman shouldn’t help out financially but you need to lead the way by providing for your family. If it means working overtime or having an extra job to ensure you put a smile on the face of your wife and your kids, you need to do this.
4. YOU DON’T SHOW HER THAT SHE IS LOVED
Your wife still wants to know you still love her even after months or years of marrying her. When was the last time you told her you love her? When was the last time you got her a surprise gift? When was the last time you sent your wife some lovely messages? Don’t forget that it’s really important you show her you still love her.
5. LACK OF PHYSICAL AFFECTION
Are you withholding s*x from her or maybe you are not just there when you make love to her? Do you still hug and kiss her before leaving for work and when you return? Do you still hold hands when you take a walk down the street together? Your wife wants you to show her affection in the bedroom and also outside the bedroom.