While some ladies treat being single as normal, others hate it when they are single; they just get too frustrated when they are single. For all the single ladies out there, I have got 5 things you need to know
1. DON’T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS SAY:
It’s so easy to get frustrated and worry too much if you are a single woman who is in her 30s. The pressure from friends and family can just be too much to handle. As a single woman, you need to understand it’s your life and you shouldn’t live it for others. No one should control your relationships for you; you alone should be in control.
2. BETTER TO HAVE A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE:
If you ask those that have gone through divorce, they would tell you it’s much easier ending a relationship than ending a marriage. You go through a lot when you end a marriage. Being single due to a failed relationship failed doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world for you.
3. BETTER TO BE SINGLE THAN BEING WITH THE WRONG PARTNER:
You should understand that because your best friend is in a relationship doesn’t mean they are happy in that relationship. Some people endure being in an unhealthy relationship because they are scared of being single. You shouldn’t get so frustrated and end up with a person you don’t love.
4. ENJOY YOUR SINGLE STATUS:
You should enjoy being single because you won’t be restricted from doing whatever you want to do. Instead of worrying about being single, I think you should instead live life and be happy. Learn new skills, make new friends etc.
5. TIME TO STOP SOME NEGATIVE HABITS:
When you are single it’s important you use that time to re-evaluate why your previous relationship came to an end and try to make yourself a better person. Maybe you are someone who gets angry easily, you should use that time to work on yourself and you never know, your ideal man could just be around the corner.
Being single isn’t the end of the world.
ViV
I have learned a new lesson in my single life. Thanks.