Cheating is a very common occurrence in relationships these days. The worst part of the problem is that even when you confront your partner about them cheating, they still end up denying it. So it’s always good to have strong proof before alleging anything.
There are telling signs of a cheating partner, however, it’s also advised that we understand that signs can be deceiving sometimes and not a certainty. Not everything is what it seems. What applies to one may not to another.
Having said that, let’s quickly look at some signs your partner is cheating.
THEY NO LONGER TAKE PHONE CALLS AROUND YOU
There’s no excuse for ones partner not to answer phone calls in their presence – the moment that starts to happen, it’s likely something is wrong. Even if it’s not about an affair, it’s possible they’re doing something shady. This should even be more concerning when the behaviour is all of a sudden.
THEY STOP SHARING THEIR DEVICES
Unless this was the style from the start, it’s not a good sign when your partner suddenly adds passwords and locks to their mobile phones, computers, and tablets. When this happens, it’s possible they have something in there they don’t want you to see. Maybe conversations or pictures?
THEY DON’T LIKE YOU SHOWING UP UNANNOUNCED
Privacy is important, and it’s rational to put a call through, and inform your partner you’re visiting them before you do, however, there may be occasions you just want to surprise them or for some reason, you can’t reach them before your visit. If they make a fuss of the whole situation, then, you should probably be worried about another woman having access to your man’s house.
THEY LIE ABOUT THEIR WHEREABOUTS
If your partner keeps lying about the places they’ve been when you ask them, there’s a reason to worry. One who has no skeletons in their closet has nothing to lie for.
YOU CONTRACT AN STI
Unless you’re cheating yourself, if you only sleep with your partner, and discovered you’ve gotten a sexually transmitted infection, there’s only one person it could have come from, and if that’s the case, they obviously got it because they slept with someone else who’s infected.