Sometimes your relationship might turn sour and at this stage just one thing comes to mind – ending the relationship. You shouldn’t think of ending the relationship every time your relationship hits a bad patch ; sometimes all your relationship needs is just a little break, more understanding and commitment to make the relationship work and it would be okay.
So many have ended relationships that they shouldn’t have just because they lacked the patience and commitment to make it work; finding a good partner is not always an easy ordeal and losing a good partner isn’t a good idea; I have 5 signs that you should contemplate on before ending that relationship.
1. YOU STILL CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER
Love is an emotion that never dies easily but there are so many situations where pride and probably selfishness had led to the demise of a relationship where love existed. If you still have feelings for your partner then work out your differences rather than leave the relationship and regret it later. Sometimes partners leave each other and regret the decision later.
2. THEY ARE JUST PETTY PROBLEMS
Sometimes in relationship, we all tend to exaggerate things; we make petty problems look like they are major problems. The reasons some people give for ending a relationship sometimes show that they didn’t put enough effort in making that relationship work. I agree that if it’s a situation where things get out of hand then you can leave but when it’s just little things that seem to linger you should fix it with your partner and stay in that relationship.
3. DOUBLE MINDED
When you are double minded about something it means you are not sure. The best time to end a relationship is when you are sure that your relationship would never work out anymore; if your mind is made up then it is best to leave the relationship but if your mind is here and there then it means you still have a reason to be in that relationship.
4. YOUR MOTIVE
Sometimes the motivating factor why people end their relationship is somewhat cruel; some ladies end their previous caring relationship because they have seen a man who is ready to splash some little ‘coins’, while some men leave a caring relationship for pleasure from another lady forgetting the essence and basics of a successful relationship; being in a beautiful relationship isn’t a situation that you would always come across, so if you are in one, make it work rather than lose sight of the relationship.
5. YOUR PARTNER IS READY TO DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE IT WORK
In some situations where your partner has erred greatly, it depends on if you’re emotionally strong to forgive and return to the relationship. However, when the there was no great error on the side of your partner but the relationship somehow took a wrong turn, if in such situation your partner is ready to do everything to make things work again then there is no point leaving the relationship. Having such a partner is always a plus and no one should lose sight of that.
It’s always good to carefully analyse your relationship before pulling the plugs, it’s never always good to end a loving relationship too quickly; sometimes your relationship just needs a little more understanding and less of selfishness to be the best; don’t lose sight of this.
Except in extreme cases of domestic violence and unfaithfulness then would these signs not be valid.
Shawn