Sometimes being single is the best decision you could make for yourself but you have to admit that sometimes it sucks and you would only wish you had a man with you.
I believe women should be strong enough and not be a weakling; being a weakling means you would be used by men; men love women that are daring and courageous, a weak hearted woman might end up being a man’s footstool.
However, wanting a good relationship with a man doesn’t make you a weak hearted woman, opening your heart to love and be truly loved shows strength.
Below are signs that show you ought to quit being single and that your heart is yearning for a relationship
1. YOU ADMIRE OR ENVY FRIENDS
When you are single and you don’t care, no matter how fun-filled and love-struck the relationship of your friends might be, it won’t get to you; but when you start admiring and envying the relationship your friends are in then it just might be that your heart might be ready to quit being single and rather be in a relationship.
2. LONG NIGHTS
When your heart is yearning for a relationship, somehow nights no longer feel cozy; you could survive day time but definitely won’t survive the nights. Nights are more emotional; the heart feels loneliness, love, warmth, hatred and any other emotions more at night. When you start having long and sleepless nights as a result of your being single then it’s probably time you open your heart to being loved.
3. YOU FEEL THIS SPACE
Being single doesn’t mean you would feel a space in your heart or in your life; you could be single and still go on well with life and you won’t even feel it, but the moment you start feeling this void or loneliness in your life, or when you start having that feeling of emptiness then it might just be time to leave being single.
4. YOUR HEARTS STARTS YEARNING
When you’re single and need to be in a relationship, your heart would somehow tell you; there is this yearning the heart feels which you can’t deny, and when it gets to this stage you can deceive every other person but yourself that it’s time to stop being single.
5. YOU MISS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP
When you see yourself reminiscing on what it feels like to be in a relationship then you should know that your heart is already yearning out to be with a man. When you miss your previous relationships (even though deep down you know it’s a failed relationship) or when you miss what it feels like being with a man then you should know that the heart is tired of being single.
Though I won’t end this piece without saying that because you feel the need to be in a relationship doesn’t mean you should jump in one with any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes your way, else you would regret it.
Only enter a relationship where you would feel loved else it’s better to even remain single.
Viv